Marriage isn’t easy
Love is blind, marriage is an eye opener, as the father used to say.
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Women are entirely different creatures from the ages of 25 to 40.
Don’t marry too young is my advice
You’ve no idea of the circumstances here mate. He may well be but he’s probably financially fucked and a year in dubai can do a lot for a deposit for the new house hes gonna need.
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Yes but the original post doesn’t exactly suggest this now does it
“Fecking off”
“leaving the kids with the ex”
Thats true
everything ok bro?
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Better than ok pal
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No cunt thinks of the kids really going through the family courts as by the time ye both get in there the parasites of solicitors have twisted and turned both ppl against each other,
And with all the constant hassle the kids are stuck between 2 bulls - no leeway
To be quite honest if I had the time over I’d have bit my tongue and hung on until the youngest was in his 20s
Hindsight is fab isn’t it?
My eldest boy is 37 and we’re only back as dad and son properly last 3/4 years, others are fine thankfully.
I wrote and prayed that my eldest and I could rekindle our relationship ( know it’s wrong but he was my favourite and I let him down) anyway that’s my tuppence worth
Anyways now his woman a nice crossmaglen lady is expecting her first and alls good in the camp 
prayers work
But to anyone even thinking of leaving your kids - don’t
In my stupid egotistical head at the time I thought and probably believed that I wasn’t leaving the kids but her.
I was totally 
wrong
Kids are always hurt irrespective what age or stage in their lives
Our family courts need a rehaul-
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I’m in his camp
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