It was €50 a head farmer and trust me it was good. Not Michelin star but good for honest country folk who found no fault in it. I know someone paid €80 a head where the food was diabolical. Also have had €100 a head food which was obviously good but unmemorable.
They got a big gift off each of their parents which I conservatively estimated at €10k but it was in fact rumoured to be above €20k. He’s buying a cheapish second hand car but the wedding has also put them over the top in terms of getting on the property ladder.
Just because you weren’t frugal with your wedding and came out thousands down don’t think it wasn’t doable. And you will be really seething at this part - it was a very, very good wedding.