Seeing as mac abandoned his post as the go to man for all things communion related can I please enquire before I offer any advice, what do you mean by meal ?
I.e. Will you prepare and eat it at your home or will you go to a hotel or similar for a celebratory meal.
We got caught out with our eldest. We went to a restaurant rather than have the bother of doing stuff at home. Lots of his mates had functions at home and bouncy castles etc.
Our meal was done and dusted by 5:30pm.
Everyone dispersed then, and Brimmer junior was forlorn and a little annoyed and suffering from post big day blues, when his big day was abruptly finished at 5:30pm.
We hadn’t factored in the early finish.
I’d recommend inviting all the attendees at the meal back to the house for evening teas or similar.
On the day I’ve mentioned above I promptly rang around a few hotels and we got a booking in cork and were checking into a hotel with pool within 90mins, this made his day complete, we didn’t make the same mistake with the other 2 and pre booked a hotel with pool in advance so after we hunt the relations home its into the car for a night away and some shopping the day after.