I think you may have the wrong end of the stick here pal and may be projecting your own frustration or just basic hatred of the emailer.
The right response would be to message him privately, tell him you fully support his escalation to head of legal etc and offer to support and help in any way. Agree with his frustration and maybe throw in how it affects your performance metrics.
This will a) throw him out of shape and completely confuse him if he is being cuntish b) if he’s not, you gain an ally and he basically owes you one.
Every crisis is an opportunity for you to strengthen your position or weaken those around you.
Do the opposite of what you’re feeling, strategically better in the long run.
In his brazen jobsworth attempt to use @Bandage as some sort of launchpad he has fucked himself longterm, senior management will spot him for what he is a mile away now, never go over your own link in the working chain.
You have to stamp your authority at every opportunity. It’s the only language these captains of industry understand. Not nailing this guy now that bandage has been put under the spotlight of senior management, will be the equivalent of a limp handshake- it will stay in the memory of higher ups for forever.
You can be sure ‘a lack of backbone’ will be mentioned in the end of year appraisal.
I don’t think the game’s up yet. I’d copy everyone into a curt email saying something along the lines of “thanks for the legal advice…i sure everyone needs to pay attention to you, and your speculations on these matters”.
Then I’d organise 5-a-side, break his ankle and call it done.
This upcoming Bando update will tell us a lot about the character of the man. Will he use conflict management by having a private convo (pussin out) or will he stand his ground in the Corporate Colosseum, potentially even impressing some exec-level figures in the process?
Probably worth “leaning into”your Wexford GAA contacts and have a chat with Derek McGrath on the matter?
Sun Tzu would surely have a tactic for this situation
A lot of Employers love a workhorse at senior management . Does the work , asks no questions and the boss still knows the he’s the smartest person in the room.