[QUOTE=“TheUlteriorMotive, post: 1071001, member: 2272”]To fall in love with anyone, do this
http://mobile.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/modern-love-to-fall-in-love-with-anyone-do-this.html?_r=1&referrer[/QUOTE]
New schedule for Bomber’s next first date.
The next one is not getting away.
Stare into my eyes, not around the eyes
Did you manage to get your dick wet with your lady yet Glas? The updates have slowed
Did you text that bint using viber? A most unreliable form of texting. She probably thinks you’re a total ignoramus for cutting off contact. Text her again.
Never.
This thread used to be one of the best on the internet.
Now - meh.
This is not the right way to deal with it Bomber, you can’t let her know that she hurt you so much. If you ever meet her again you need to be very friendly while at the same time completely indifferent to her. If you can pull this off she will be all over you and you will get the satisfaction of telling her to get fucked, in the nicest way possible.
It’s the same end result, pal. I couldn’t be arsed playing games about it, she did hurt me and I’d prefer it to be related in no uncertain terms to her.
your dead right bomber…I’d keep a fiver note wedged between your arse cheeks every night you go out in anticipation of meeting her…when you do, take it out, roll it in a ball and bounce it off her forehead and tell that’s to buy herself the drink you had previously planned to bring her for…she’ll know then for sure she let a good one go…
[QUOTE=“Il Bomber Destro, post: 1070577, member: 2533”]I think so, I no longer feel sad. I was talking this malaise over with a pal during the week and he said “what a bitch”. I’ve thought about that a lot in the last week - he’s dead right. Not even a text to say thank you or goodbye or an explanation, nothing after the last words she relayed to me after Christmas were that she will see me again after it, it’s a general common courtesy and she couldn’t even afford me that. Fuck her, if I see her again in a social setting I will tear strips off her (figuratively), I feel nothing but resentment for her now, which is a positive for me moving on.
These events have shaped a new outlook for me with women, I now feel very cynical towards their motives for going on dates. Are they out to find love or are we just a proxy for them to enjoy a free/inexpensive social night. I’m bordering towards the latter now.[/QUOTE]
Paying for everything on dates was your mistake. Shows your too eager to please her.
This won’t work as he has already made the mistake of paying for everything on his few dates with her.
Eh, no it’s not.
:rolleyes: Was it yourself looked for the last update? Same as. Relax pal.
I’ve had this conversation with a few people with regard to the etiquette of paying for drinks, food etc of the initial dates with a lady.
I would have usually gone to a pub for the initial date or two. I would always insist on paying for the first few drinks. If she refused to offer to pay after that (never happened to me) it wouldn’t bother me hugely. However if such a practice continued in the next dates then it would become an issue as she is clearly a tight bitch (not in a good way) and freeloader. Of course all this needs to be considered with regard to how the rest of the relationship is developing.
[QUOTE=“farmerinthecity, post: 1071640, member: 24”]I’ve had this conversation with a few people with regard to the etiquette of paying for drinks, food etc of the initial dates with a lady.
I would have usually gone to a pub for the initial date or two. I would always insist on paying for the first few drinks. If she refused to offer to pay after that (never happened to me) it wouldn’t bother me hugely. However if such a practice continued in the next dates then it would become an issue as she is clearly a tight bitch (not in a good way) and freeloader. Of course all this needs to be considered with regard to how the rest of the relationship is developing.[/QUOTE]
+1
I can just picture @glasagusban sitting there like a tool with an empty glass in front of him for half an hour as he waits for her to buy him a drink. I believe the unwritten rule for the first 3/4 dates is the that the gentleman should cover the bulk of the costs ~ 80%. After that, it should be an even keel.
[QUOTE=“Il Bomber Destro, post: 1071648, member: 2533”]+1
I can just picture @glasagusban sitting there like a tool with an empty glass in front of him for half an hour as he waits for her to buy him a drink. I believe the unwritten rule for the first 3/4 dates is the that the gentleman should cover the bulk of the costs ~ 80%. After that, it should be an even keel.[/QUOTE]
I don’t think there is a rule bro. I’d say the majority of ladies will offer and even demand to pay straight from the off. No problem then.
I would reject their advances to pay for the first few dates, important to display chivalry at all times in the initial dates.
I don’t think you’d understand, pal. We’re not talking about hookers.