Christ!
As I said before, for someone who seems to hold a huge interest in, and professes himself an authority on, the workings of the mind, that is an incredibly ignorant statement.
[QUOTE=“caoimhaoin, post: 1068158, member: 273”]
so I pretty much ignored it.[/QUOTE]
Read it, quoted it and responded to it. I pretty much get where your’re coming from fella.
I ignored the retarded question/joke anecdote. Fella.
[QUOTE=“farmerinthecity, post: 1068178, member: 24”]Christ!
As I said before, for someone who seems to hold a huge interest in, and professes himself an authority on, the workings of the mind, that is an incredibly ignorant statement.[/QUOTE]
Go on, what part?
[QUOTE=“myboyblue, post: 1068175, member: 180”][I]banter material
:rolleyes:[/I][/QUOTE]
will you stop replying to somebody who has you on ignore you fuckin freak !!..:mad:
Eh I’ve shown some time ago that he doesn’t pal. Did you miss it? Can you imagine the level of seething at having to keep up the pretence that he does though? To be proven wrong on the internet? He couldn’t allow that, so the rage is growing, and growing…I bet that stumpy abbo is taking some pounding in the back of that hiace van full of non jewish made tools all this while. As for the dogs, jesus who knows. He’ll be on a clocktower sooner rather than later though.
This bit:
Some people are just easilygood people, others take a time to find their way, and another bunch are cunts.
Widespread generalisation and putting into ‘categories’ (such as ‘cunts’) is ignorant. I mean we all do it but when you are having a serious discussions about how kids should be raised, that is hardly useful.
In summary. Some kids will turn out fine, some won’t. Some go to creches, some have au pairs, some are raised by stay at home parents, some have a mixture of the 3 or none at all. The previous 2 sentences may or may not be linked together depending on the child in question. Anything I missed?
[QUOTE=“farmerinthecity, post: 1068235, member: 24”]This bit:
Some people are just easilygood people, others take a time to find their way, and another bunch are cunts.
Widespread generalisation and putting into ‘categories’ (such as ‘cunts’) is ignorant. I mean we all do it but when you are having a serious discussions about how kids should be raised, that is hardly useful.[/QUOTE]
The hypocrisy that he fills the forum with is gas. He was berating Fagan for begrudgers in another thread when he is probably the most bitter and snide poster on the siteam.
He then goes to talk about nuances in this thread while generalising ever where and define people into distinctive, catch all categories.
The ignorant jibes really show an unprecedented level of delusion.
I have came up with following equation.
Arrogance x Stupidity x Bitterness = @caoimhaoin
[QUOTE=“farmerinthecity, post: 1068235, member: 24”]This bit:
Some people are just easilygood people, others take a time to find their way, and another bunch are cunts.
Widespread generalisation and putting into ‘categories’ (such as ‘cunts’) is ignorant. I mean we all do it but when you are having a serious discussions about how kids should be raised, that is hardly useful.[/QUOTE]
Jesus Christ farmer, are you that desperate to get back at me over the other day when you , and this is important, made YOURSELF look narrow minded and with a narrow view of women and that you are unable to look outside your own sphere.
FFS it’s hardly mind boggling to say there are people who are born good, some who can be swayed either way and some are evil cunts.
What if you were in the middle group farmer (which most of us are) and you grew up in Ballymun with drug addiction in your family. How do you think you would go?
Of course it’s generalization, we’re talking about the population of Ireland here
I finished this debate 2 days ago.
Fuck off.
[QUOTE=“caoimhaoin, post: 1068296, member: 273”]I finished this debate 2 days ago.
Fuck off.[/QUOTE]
Why is still continuing then?
[QUOTE=“farmerinthecity, post: 1068235, member: 24”]This bit:
Some people are just easilygood people, others take a time to find their way, and another bunch are cunts.
Widespread generalisation and putting into ‘categories’ (such as ‘cunts’) is ignorant. I mean we all do it but when you are having a serious discussions about how kids should be raised, that is hardly useful.[/QUOTE]
that’s a really bad example …
I don’t there is any doubt Some people are just easilygood people, others take a time to find their way, and another bunch are cunts…
Fuck knows, spidey spent 24 hours think of something to say and started it off again.
Because you didn’t finish it as you claimed?
WE.GO.AGAIN.
[QUOTE=“caoimhaoin, post: 1068265, member: 273”]Jesus Christ farmer, are you that desperate to get back at me over the other day when you , and this is important, made YOURSELF look narrow minded and with a narrow view of women and that you are unable to look outside your own sphere.
FFS it’s hardly mind boggling to say there are people who are born good, some who can be swayed either way and some are evil cunts.
What if you were in the middle group farmer (which most of us are) and you grew up in Ballymun with drug addiction in your family. How do you think you would go?
Of course it’s generalization, we’re talking about the population of Ireland here[/QUOTE]
What on earth are you shiteing on about with the women point? I recall no such instance when I, and this is important, made MYSELF look narrow minded (you can therefore take this as evidence that this had absolutely no impact on my decision to pull you up on the generalisation post).
Labelling the population as people who are born good, bad and in the middle is understandable in some instances but not with regard to a self professed expert in the area. Defining people in mental health is not advisable - ask any of the people you know about that. I mean you says what’s good, who says what’s bad, what about those with genuine reasons for being bad such as a poor upbringing or suffering from mental health issues.
I do find the snobbishness on here from those with kids somewhat annoying. I find it incredible though that you are making all these comments about raising kids and casting aspersions all over the place when you don’t even have any and have no expertise in the area apart from some stupid fucking midwife or something.
So you are basically an utter spoofer. Not a bad guy probably but you simply have to be pulled up from time to time.
[QUOTE=“farmerinthecity, post: 1068327, member: 24”]What on earth are you shiteing on about with the women point? I recall no such instance when I, and this is important, made MYSELF look narrow minded (you can therefore take this as evidence that this had absolutely no impact on my decision to pull you up on the generalisation post).
Labelling the population as people who are born good, bad and in the middle is understandable in some instances but not with regard to a self professed expert in the area. Defining people in mental health is not advisable - ask any of the people you know about that. I mean you says what’s good, who says what’s bad, what about those with genuine reasons for being bad such as a poor upbringing or suffering from mental health issues.
I do find the snobbishness on here from those with kids somewhat annoying. I find it incredible though that you are making all these comments about raising kids and casting aspersions all over the place when you don’t even have any and have no expertise in the area apart from some stupid fucking midwife or something.
So you are basically an utter spoofer. Not a bad guy probably but you simply have to be pulled up from time to time.[/QUOTE]
I made some observations farmer. I feel people are killing themselves, in many cases, to pay for stuff they don’t need and for child care they don’t need or to get a bigger house they don’t need.
I don’t need kids to observe this. How can I be spoofing about what I am seeing and experiencing?
The discussion went all over the place from there, but that was the thrust of my argument.
The women thing was related to you professing that most women are career orientated. I said that in your world, financial accounting, this may be largely true but would not reflect the general population.
[QUOTE=“caoimhaoin, post: 1068331, member: 273”]I made some observations farmer. I feel people are killing themselves, in many cases, to pay for stuff they don’t need and for child care they don’t need or to get a bigger house they don’t need.
I don’t need kids to observe this. How can I be spoofing about what I am seeing and experiencing?
The discussion went all over the place from there, but that was the thrust of my argument.
The women thing was related to you professing that most women are career orientated. I said that in your world, financial accounting, this may be largely true but would not reflect the general population.[/QUOTE]
I never said that.
Separate to the wide ranging debate on this thread, I was in touch with an old pal today. In the course of him telling me about his family life, he stated that marriage and parenting is a battle of perceptions both with your partner and outsiders. I thought it was an interesting comment to make but didn’t tease it out more as we were interrupted by another acquaintance. Any thoughts on this, chaps?