See this is the nub of it. You can say it all you like. But young lads are volatile, and you can think you have everything as it should be until chaos theory interjects.
Thatās where discipline comes in to it then. You respect your opponent and the referee. If a young lad sledges a fella after a game or drops a shoulder or a belt across a fella he has no business playing sports until his parents sort out his behaviour and no club should tolerate it
Youād be banning lads left right and centre. And parents would be queuing up to complain about x y and z of unconfiemed shit about their kid, another kid, the other team.
For the lad i was talking about, ive coached him in a couple of different sports since he was about 4/5 hes always had that streak. Would give a kid who was minding their own business a clip as he passed. Heās had warnings, small bans, parents come and watch, etc. His brother is one of the nicest kids, his dad coaches the gaa as well, sometimes theres not a lot you can do. Also, his behaviour is actually improving! A bit of sledging compared to whacking lads
Is it as big an issue as is being made out here? Rarely comes to anything. Bit of slagging or jostling occasionally but you need to how to act when youāve won or lost and are going to both meet and have cunts within your own ranks that need dealing with. Part and parcel
Quite possibly not. But a muldoon gaa coach was sitting on an 8 year old strangling him at the weekend so and had to be dragged off byb3 parents and a priest so you cant be too careful.
dont mean to make it sound like Iām calling it a big issue, I just think its stupid to keep tapping hurls and hopping elbows. Rare enough anything happens or there are any flashpoints, but it definitely does happen and usually met with befuddled looks and WTF rather than any big aftermatch brawls in the car park.
I know ye lads hate solutions and love a moan but if you think its going to be an issue could ye not just talk to the opposing coach and maybe agree to give it a skip. Most people are reasonable