Carry harry can get fucked, sickening to see a serious thread taken into the gutter like this. Hope the young one can get over these quickly FR . Don;t try to physically comfort the child as this can add to the trauma, try talking calmly or singing to sooth her.
Seriously. I learned the hard way. Leave them alone. It sounds awful to hear them screaming and crying but you only make them worse by trying to comfort them. They are essentially asleep even though they don’t look it, whilst experiencing night terrors.
Raven my advice is learn moon river(Audrey Hepburn version) on a nylon string guitar and serenade her softly to sleep that way. Failing that, one teaspoon of whiskey in her milk should do the trick. Happy parenting amico