And his sister is also his Ma.
Fucking inbred mong.
Step away from the veh-hicle 
This isnât a spot but I came across Paul Flynn a couple of times on the evening of the munster u21 final, and the guy seems to be a complete imbecile. It would appear the pukeâs Tom (pat shortt in fr ted) comparison is not at all off the mark. The food is shit in Dungarvan as well.
I stopped in Fermoy on the way down for food, the less money left in waterford the better as far as I was concerned;)
[quote=âmyboyblueâ]Celeb: Liam O Maonlaoi
Famous For: Being lead singer of the Hothouse Flowers, being big into his trad and his use of the cupla focail.
Where: Grafton St Dublin
When: Lunctime, Monday 10/08/09
Wearing: General clobber youâd expect to see Liam in, tattered jeans, tattered shirt, waistcoat.
Any other info: Carrying a large number of bags, most of them being of the plastic Tesco variety. Liam came around the corner at me and I only briefly spotted him due to his head being in his hands. At first I thought the man was crying until he lifted his head out of his hands, and then I realised who he was and he just looked very very hungover.[/quote]
What a clown that OâMoanlaoi bloke is.
His motherâs from Leitrim.
MehâŚ
No, his ma.
Please enlighten me as to why Maonlaoi is a clown.
Fao Link Walsh
Link, Surprised you didnt put up your meeting with Tony COnsidine as a spot, he seemed to be well pleased with meeting you himself as he mentioned it in the Examiner on Monday. :D;)
Who: (oooh ahh) Paul McGrath
Where: Courtyard / Out the back of Jurys Inn Croke Park.
When: Sunday 2.15 - 2.35
Wearing: Black Suit, Black Shirt (open Collar)
Mood: Slightly âtired and emotionalâ but jovial, as he posed for photos with supporters of the Deise. I was kind of disapointing to see Paul enjoy a pint of Carlsberg, as he has obviously fallen off the wagon once again.
Company: Man in Navy suit, white shirt open collar, acting like some kind of minder, but doing a shit job of it.
Reaction: Awe to be standing within 3 feet of the Black Pearl of Inchicore for 20 odd minutes, gutted to see the man on the beer.
[quote=âHangBlaaâ]Who: (oooh ahh) Paul McGrath
Where: Courtyard / Out the back of Jurys Inn Croke Park.
When: Sunday 2.15 - 2.35
Wearing: Black Suit, Black Shirt (open Collar)
Mood: Slightly âtired and emotionalâ but jovial, as he posed for photos with supporters of the Deise. I was kind of disapointing to see Paul enjoy a pint of Carlsberg, as he has obviously fallen off the wagon once again.
Company: Man in Navy suit, white shirt open collar, acting like some kind of minder, but doing a shit job of it.
Reaction: Awe to be standing within 3 feet of the Black Pearl of Inchicore for 20 odd minutes, gutted to see the man on the beer.[/quote]
Super spot. Sobering news that heâs fallen off the wagon.
McGrath is âoff the wagonâ years now.
Lives a few miles down the road from me at home too actually.
[quote=âHangBlaaâ]Who: (oooh ahh) Paul McGrath
Where: Courtyard / Out the back of Jurys Inn Croke Park.
When: Sunday 2.15 - 2.35
Wearing: Black Suit, Black Shirt (open Collar)
Mood: Slightly âtired and emotionalâ but jovial, as he posed for photos with supporters of the Deise. I was kind of disapointing to see Paul enjoy a pint of Carlsberg, as he has obviously fallen off the wagon once again.
Company: Man in Navy suit, white shirt open collar, acting like some kind of minder, but doing a shit job of it.
Reaction: Awe to be standing within 3 feet of the Black Pearl of Inchicore for 20 odd minutes, gutted to see the man on the beer.[/quote]
I remember working behind the jump in one of the them disgusting shitholes of bars on Dawson St about 8 years ago and seeing a paraletic Paul McGrath trying hard but failing miserably to gain access at the door. He was literally struggling to stay on his feet. As sad moment indeed.
Was he ever really on the wagon though? Would be like trying to wean a cat off milk.
Iâd say he gave it a fair go alright. Tragic so it is.
McGrath hasnât been on the wagon in a long time as far as I know, I saw him fairly pissed on Grafton St as well there recently on a Saturday night out.
Good interview here actually
âI remember the blood pouring and the nanny screamingâ
The Guardian, Tuesday 24 October 2006
As we go down into the darkness, sinking towards the depths of Paul McGrathâs harrowing story, everything slows and tilts until it seems as if we are looking out at the world through the bottom of an empty bottle. Even the name of the swish hotel in Birmingham, where the battered old Irish footballer talks so movingly of his lost life, reminds us of his demons. In the bar of the Hotel du Vin, among elegant decor punctuated by row upon row of green and black bottles, all uncorked and drained of champagne and wine, the 46-year-old alcoholic licks his lips and asks for a sparkling water.
McGrath looks what he is - a man trying to stay âdryâ in a place of pitiless temptation, a man who uses the word âwellâ time after time to nail the life-saving need for him to stay sober. The big defender cackles softly when I suggest that the publishers of his gripping book, Back From The Brink, might have opted for a more sensitive venue for this interview. His unflinching autobiography, after all, is more concerned with a life ruined by alcoholism than celebrating his once dazzling football career. âI did notice all the bottles when I came in,â McGrath says, âbut drink is everywhere now. If you tried to hide from it when youâre feeling well I donât think youâd be solving anything.â
His story is as complex as it is moving, as vulnerable as it is brutal. For a while, even though he is by far the most thoughtful and likeable footballer I have ever met, we seem unsure where to begin. But this mutual shyness helps, allowing McGrath to ease himself into talking deeply rather than rattling through a list of questions which want him to explain glibly how an illustrious career, culminating in two World Cup finals tournaments for the Republic of Ireland and the 1993 PFA Player of the Year award, was framed by alcoholism, two divorces and four attempts to end his life.
The first of those failed suicides came in 1989, soon after he and Sir Alex Ferguson had fallen out for the last time and Manchester United sold him to Aston Villa. âI was in trouble with the club,â McGrath says. âIâm drunk and ashamed, on the edge of my bed, and reaching for the knife. I remember the blood pouring across the floor and the screaming of the nanny looking after our boys.â
His first wife, Claire, the mother of his three eldest sons, rushed home before the ambulance arrived. She knelt in front of her sobbing husband and tried to ask him what was wrong. It was the first time she had seen him cry, and the sounds falling from his mouth spoke of a new horror.
With a surreal ability to mask the depth of his problems, McGrath soon returned to football. Graham Taylor, the sympathetic Villa manager in whom he confided, played him in midfield against an Everton side featuring McGrathâs former Old Trafford drinking partner, Norman Whiteside. McGrath wore wristbands to hide his wounds and inspired Villa to a 6-0 lead. While their defence missed his uncanny gift in reading opposition attacks and conceded two late goals, that victory prompted a run of 35 straight league games for McGrath. Villa nearly won the championship and McGrath was voted the supportersâ player of the year.
His respect for Taylor, who would soon move on to manage England, is in marked contrast to his muted appraisal of Steve McClaren. Professing himself to be âamazedâ at the rise of Englandâs current coach from the anonymity of being No2 at Derby County, another of McGrathâs former clubs, the Irishman warns that, "You have to have so many gifts as an international manager. Fair play to [McClaren] being nominated for the job, let alone getting it. But it looks a step too far . . .
âFrom obscurity he was suddenly picked as Sir Alex Fergusonâs No2. If he hadnât been given that break at Manchester United it would never have happened.â
McGrath, however, now steps back from the feud with Ferguson which resulted in his transfer to Villa. "We were on a collision course, me and Alex, because he was out to seize control of the club by barking at everyone. He had me and Norman in the office all the time, shouting and fining us, but it didnât work. We were injured a lot of the time and weâd be at a loss after rehabilitation work in the morning, so inevitably weâd end up on a bar-stool in the afternoon saying, âAw, letâs just go for it.â
âIâd had lots of knee operations by then and Alex thought, 'Hang on, this is a drinker with rotten knees . . . â He was right and, if Iâd been him, Iâd have kicked me and Norman out a long time before then. He saved me in a way. When he let me go to Villa something welled up in me and I wanted to prove I could really play. The next five years, whenever Villa played United, we walked past each other in the corridor. And then we beat United in the [1994] League Cup final and, afterwards, Alex put his hand out and said, âWell done, big man.â It made me wish I had gone up to him first.â
Three years later an ageing McGrath, almost crippled in the knees and by the drink, was voted man of the match at Old Trafford during a shock victory for Jim Smith and McClarenâs Derby County over a title-chasing United. Ferguson remembers turning to his assistant, Brian Kidd, and saying: âYou have to wonder what a player McGrath should have been.â He also believes that âPaul had similar problems to George Best [but] he was without doubt the most natural athlete in football you could imagineâ.
When McGrath talks about Best, he could be describing himself. âI met George on and off down the years and you couldnât meet a lovelier person. He was quite shy and he had a gentle way when he wasnât on the drink. We were often at functions when the drink was flowing but I never really went on the tear with him.â
It will be 11 months tomorrow since Best died and McGrath says: âI always hated hearing George was back on the drink. And when he died all the people who love me said: âThis is where your path also ends.â But Iâm a Jekyll and Hyde character and when I drink I become a pest. I get loud and end up hating myself in the morning. Itâs just a chronic lack of self-esteem - thinking youâre going to be better with a skinful.â
The reasons for McGrathâs turmoil are plain. Born to a white Dublin girl, Betty McGrath, and a Nigerian father who disappeared soon after his conception, Paul was given up by his traumatised mother when he was only four weeks old. She had travelled in secret to London to have her illegitimate child - terrified that her father would find out she had become pregnant or, even worse, that she had slept with a black man. His mother would eventually track him down again, but McGrath - then called Paul Nwobilo - was still shunted from one orphanage to another.
âI would be the only black child in my class and when it came to history and they started to talk about Africa I would just shrink. Iâd pray it would go as quick as possible - and that seems such a shame because Iâm so interested in history these days. Iâm close to my mum now, and she is a real witty old Dublin woman, but I guess when you look back there are reasons for my troubles.â
His subsequent drinking never really stopped and was eventually joined by another addiction - to tranquillisers. They were used for another suicide attempt, in 1997, and yet little can prepare us for his further revelation that âtowards the end of my second marriage I was so desperate for a drink that, when the cupboards were empty, I filled a pint glass with Domestos. I drank it in one and went upstairs and waited - for oblivion or death.â
McGrath was suddenly filled with terror and spent the next hour drinking water in an effort to drench the terrible burning. He managed to get himself to hospital, where it was found that, miraculously, his internal organs had been relatively unscathed.
In a Manchester prison cell for the night McGrath âhit a new low. But then the shutter on the door slid back and this police officer says âPaul, I used to watch you on the Stretford End. You were a hero of mine. I hope you get wellâ. Even in my quivering state, I knew someone was again trying to be decent.â
For all the grisly details, I also find something irreducibly decent in Paul McGrath. He only wavers briefly when asked how long itâs been since he stopped drinking. âA few months now,â he says. âIt might not sound that long - but it is to me.â Yet I had heard that earlier this month he had checked himself into a clinic in Wexford, in Ireland, where he now lives.
âWell,â McGrath hesitates, âI havenât really said to anyone where Iâve been. To be honest I donât want people to have to answer questions about me but, yes, I did go in somewhere and I got a lot of great help. There are special people around me in Ireland. I turn to them when I need support.â
An hour earlier McGrath had introduced me to his eldest son, the 21-year-old Christopher, who had travelled down from Manchester to be with him in Birmingham. Chris put his hand on his fatherâs shoulder when they parted and we wheeled away to talk. Remembering that moment I ask McGrath if he can imagine himself a year from now in a sober place, somewhere he might describe as âgood and safeâ, with his family and free from drink.
âI can,â he says. âI had 16 months when I was really well and it was my prize for staying sober. But then I fell and it was hardest for my boys, because all their hopes had been built up. Iâm not a very confident person but Iâm trying again. I know that prize is still there if I stay dry. But talking about it is one thing. I have to really prove it now.â
Back From The Brink: the autobiography of Paul McGrath, is published by Century at 18.99. To order a copy for 17.99 with free UK p&p go to guardian.co.uk/ bookshop, or call 0870 836 0875