[QUOTE=“Sidney, post: 1133394, member: 183”]A few questions people should ask themselves before voting, and my views:
i) Is being attracted to members of the same sex equally as natural and normal as being attracted to members of the opposite sex?
Yes. It’s entirely natural and normal. The fact there are less gay people than straight people in no way makes it less natural or normal, in a similar way to how people with red hair are no less natural or normal.
ii) Are relationships between members of the same sex equally as natural and normal as relationships between members of the opposite sex?
Yes, for the same reason as i).
iii) Is it important that we should recognise this by allowing people of the same sex to marry?
Yes. In my view it’s very important because it will go a long way towards making a section of society who have always previously suffered prejudice and bigotry towards them, feel that their sexual orientation is now accepted as as natural, normal and valid as that of people who are attracted to members of the opposite sex, and that as people they are accepted as equal.
iv) Will marriage be redefined under the constitution if the referendum is passed?
No, because the constitution does not define marriage. My own view is, who cares whether the definition of marriage is being redefined? But for what it’s worth, the constitution will not be changed either way.
v) Should a gay couple be allowed adopt?
That’s irrelevant to the debate, because a gay couple will be able to adopt anyway, regardless of the referendum result, because the Children and Family Relationships Bill, which has already been passed, allows civil partners and cohabiting couples who have lived together for three years to adopt.
I do think that a gay couple should be allowed adopt. But that opinion and that question is as relevant to this debate as my view that the BDO is better than the pdc. And given that, the key argument in the No campaign falls away completely.
vi) Is Ireland still a homophobic society?
In my view, certainly yes. That homophobia may be less explicit and more covert than before, but there is still a significant degree of homophobia internalised in many straight people. A Yes vote will not end that but will send a strong message that homophobia should not and will not be tolerated, no more than racism should be.[/QUOTE]
Surely for the survival of a species same sex coupling is abnormal? But within the wider demesne of society, a sub section having abnormal same sex attraction, is normal.