[QUOTE=“HBV*, post: 1136332, member: 234”]i have a little fetish that some knuckledraggers might find difficult to get their small minded brains around. myself and the wife are quite open, dont get me wrong she is a fucking mentalist bitch like the majority but she is open to new experiences and doesnt spend 24/7 obsessing where i am and who i am with like my first wife did. in the months before we were married we hired an escort in london and we both had a right lash off of her for an hour in a hotel room in londonbridge. it was a planned thing and led to two more episodes in dublin but kids arrived etc etc and we called a halt. the good lady took ill in recent years and temporarily had to bow out of all tomfoolery but during this period i was encouraged to book myself a treat or two and in fact the first time this occurred the escort was chosen and booked as we sat together on the couch one night. we are open like that. we watch a bit of porn together, i get the blessing to go and treat myself and so on. we have discussed swinging but wouldnt know where to start and have probably missed the boat in terms of vintage and are probably lacking the energy to jump into that scene. no secrets (as such) between us.
im sure the world is loaded with folk like us. normal people who want a shade more than what the majority would term normal.
why cant i bring another lady into our marriage? what, legally/morally etc is the stumbling block that is stopping me and my wife from introducing a third party into our union that we both might love and want to share our lives with?
why in gods name is this illegal does anyone know? why would people who might find themselves in this scenario be discriminated against?
who are the defending lobby group here does anyone know?[/QUOTE]
Sorry, pal… Thank’s for the offer and all that but i’m not banging your wife. Got luck with it tho.
[QUOTE=“HBV*, post: 1136345, member: 234”]not an affair you tool, just a bird who might want to explore herself with a straight man and bi female
do you know any adventurous women?[/QUOTE]
Yeah, they are on that and other such websites - they list their preferances - bi-curious, couples, married couples, dogging etc. etc there’s a few such site, adultfriendfinder I think is another.
Why do you feel the need to label me with a murderer? I have not hurt anyone and my question was based purely on human love but bizarrely you can’t seem to comprehend that I may be a bit different to you so you feel compelled to lash out with your sick Graham Dwyer slur.
Asshole.
[QUOTE=“HBV*, post: 1136357, member: 234”]Why do you feel the need to label me with a murderer? I have not hurt anyone and my question was based purely on human love but bizarrely you can’t seem to comprehend that I may be a bit different to you so you feel compelled to lash out with your sick Graham Dwyer slur.
Asshole.[/QUOTE]
I comprehend you are quite a bit different chief. Weren’t you a big Dwyer defender?
what are you laughing at @carryharry ? Some people thought the evidence wasn’t enough to sentence him but no one defended him…Everyone knew he did it but it had to be proven without doubt… but I don’t expect you to grasp the finer points of law nor the necessity to uphold its values rightly or wrongly.
[QUOTE=“HBV*, post: 1136332, member: 234”]in the months before we were married we hired an escort in london and we both had a right lash off of her for an hour in a hotel room in londonbridge. it was a planned thing and led to two more episodes in dublin but kids arrived etc etc and we called a halt.
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I hope the kids weren’t too traumatised to see what you were up to when they arrived - you really should have locked the door of the room.