No, you’re the one missing the point. If Trump is the racist the left claims he is, why would minorities vote for him at all? If he is such a woman hater, why did women vote for him?
For the 100th time, the election had nothing to do with race or gender. Trump won (according to the largest Democratic superpac) because independent voters switched from democrat to Trump and millennials stayed at home. The sooner Dems absorb this message the better for their chances. They won’t though.