Is there a danger @Horsebox has gilded the lily slightly trying to make himself look less of a cunt and yer man would read it and go āhorsebox had plenty of time to talk to meā¦ heās a sneak and a liar, and a weirdo tooā¦ heās dead to meā.
@Horsebox you did fine. Iād imagine itās tough enough for that fella to go out for a few drinks. It might be a chance for him to get his mind of things. A lad he hardly knows not offering him condolences isnāt even going to register with him.
Removal to the house. Thatās the way itās gone now. Iād say church removals are gone the way of the dodo. Slept in the room with the coffin to keep the poor divil company for the last night.
Iāve done that a few times now. A nice tradition. A few family members/friends, to stay with the body in the home, let the core family members sleep. A bottle or two will be pulled out, tell a few yarns, reminisce, and generally talk shite. A nice tradition.
Iām not sure, we had my Mother in our house for two night and thereās a bit to it. Very little sleep for one. Think we would do it differently if we were to do it again. We had pretty much an open house and itās not a big house; big pressure on us all. Would drink less too.