Really sorry to hear that mate
Most of us with kids have been there, pure cunt. Hopefully the ectopic is a false alarm as they usually are. Best of luck maneen.
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That must be desperate for ye both. Sorry to hear that
Really sorry to hear this @caulifloweredneanderthal youâre a great lad and will be a top father one day, Iâve been in a similar situation a couple of times but thankfully not on the first, mind the missus now and take care of yourself,
Thinking of ye
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Hey lads,
Thanks all for the messages and so on. I got
a text from my pal @ChocolateMice about it, and as I said to him, I really just needed to dump the info outta me And this weirdly seemed like the most appropriate place.
Her Broâs wife had 4 of them before having 4 girls, my best man 3 before having two kids, and another really good friend 2 before have one. We know many people who have been down this road and âwe go againâ. My mother even told me today she had one before my sister and I arrived
Thanks for the feeling of community on what has been a shitty day. Ye are all a bunch of cunts but a bunch of sound cunts
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Sorry to hear that. Heartbreaking. Look after each other.
Good luck mate. Adult life is tough at times alright. Look after herself and yourself.
Sorry to hear that mate. Brighter days ahead, hope you both pull through it alright, weâre all here with you.
That shit is heartbreaking man but it happens. Like ambrose said. It happens a lot and has happened to lots of us. Doesnât make it easy though. Be good to each other.
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Hope all works out well buddy,mind yerselves.
Chap I went to primary school with hit the headline a few years back - they suffered 12 miscarriages or something like that before they were lucky enough to have a little girl - they refused to give up.
That would wreck your head. Some persistence
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Sorry to hear that. As any of with children know there is fuck all we can do when the other half is in the maternity hospital. All we can do is be there and do the fetching, carrying and supporting.
When my mrs was pregnant with baby taz we had 2 scares where we thought she was losing baby. Nothing worse. Hopefully things turn out good for you and your snigificant other. 
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Can only offer condolences like all the others here. And again to repeat the oft common thing in this situation, itâs only when you go through it that you realise so many others have gone through it too. They say it happens in 1 out of 4 pregnancies, we hit that mark spot on with 3 kids and one miscarriage. That sense of uselessness is terrible though. Just havent a clue what to do or how to help. All you can do is just be there and be that emotional punchbag if needs be. Wishing ye the best of luck next time around, hopefully itâll all go a lot better.
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Sorry to hear that lad, she sounds like a great woman. Take care of the both of ye.
It happened to myself and Mrs Donovan 2 and a half years ago, a cunt of a thing. Like you Iâm a bit of an Irish roaster at heart and my woman is a city girl. We hadnât told anyone of the pregnancy as it was just coming up to the three month mark and therefore nobody outside of our immediate family knew what we were going through and I wouldnât be one for opening up about my feelings which can be dangerous! I got it off my chest on TFK and it did help a lot at the time I must say.
Take care of yourself and your Mrs and us internet friends are always here to lighten the burden.
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Just coming across this now.
Very sorry to read about what happened.
Look after the missus - as I am sure you will. She is the most important one in all this.
Life can be a cunt. But youâll get through this - you wonât forget it but like everything in life, time is the healer.
And as many has already said, including your Mam, I know of loads of cases where this has happened and there have been no problems after so maybe just bear that in mind as well.
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A family member of my lady had a number of miscarriages as well (maybe 6 or 7) and also a stillborn, which is without a doubt the saddest thing I have ever witnessed in my life.
She is pregnant again now though and past the 3 months with all well. If ever someone deserved it.
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Energu companies sales folks. Every fucking night they are knocking on the door trying to get you to switch. Energia tonight.
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