NLP & Meditation

[farmerinthecity]

[QUOTE=“Kinvara’s Passion, post: 942507, member: 686”]Its whatever you want it to @Bisto mate…

For some guys like @carryharry[/USER] it will be a full sales book at the end of a week, for guys like [USER=179]@artfoley it will be rubbing his hands together in glee as another man walks free.

The key is having the belief & the expectation to achieve… but you have got to like yourself first.[/QUOTE]

What’s achievement for you mate?

[KinvarasPassion]

@farmerinthecity

What’s achievement for you mate?

Per Day…

5 x Funny
3 x Winner
5 x Likes
3 x Agree

[farmerinthecity]

You’re on your way for today pal!

[Bisto]

[QUOTE=“Kinvara’s Passion, post: 942507, member: 686”]

The key is having the belief & the expectation to achieve… but you have got to like yourself first.[/QUOTE]

interesting… would you see any link between people not liking themselves and ‘achievement’?.. hence the need to ‘achieve’ more and more to fill the empty void within ?..somebody always with a new goal and ’ expectation to achieve’… whats the need for constant fulfillment?..is it really healthy ?.. To me we live in age where the amount of people lost in themselves is at its peak…i think a lot of people wrongly label this as depression when the fact is depression is a totally different thing… its more a case of false gods…

[farmerinthecity]

@scumpot

interesting… would you see any link between people not liking themselves and ‘achievement’?.. hence the need to ‘achieve’ more and more to fill the empty void within ?..somebody always with a new goal and ’ expectation to achieve’… whats the need for constant fulfillment?..is it really healthy ?.. To me we live in age where the amount of people lost in themselves is at its peak…i think a lot of people wrongly label this as depression when the fact is depression is a totally different thing… its more a case of false gods…

That’s a good post pal.

[Bisto]

@farmerinthecity

That’s a good post pal.

cheers pal, but you’re still my sworn enemy…

[TheUlteriorMotive]

[QUOTE=“Kinvara’s Passion, post: 942507, member: 686”]Its whatever you want it to @Bisto mate…

For some guys like @carryharry[/USER] it will be a full sales book at the end of a week, for guys like [USER=179]@artfoley it will be rubbing his hands together in glee as another man walks free.

The key is having the belief & the expectation to achieve… but you have got to like yourself first.[/QUOTE]
Or as Whitney Houston put it “learning to love yourself that is the greatest love of all”

[KinvarasPassion]

@scumpot

interesting… would you see any link between people not liking themselves and ‘achievement’?.. hence the need to ‘achieve’ more and more to fill the empty void within ?..somebody always with a new goal and ’ expectation to achieve’… whats the need for constant fulfillment?..is it really healthy ?.. To me we live in age where the amount of people lost in themselves is at its peak…i think a lot of people wrongly label this as depression when the fact is depression is a totally different thing… its more a case of false gods…

Very good point.

And yes your right. Thats why liking yourself is fundamental building block that has to be in place before any sort of achievement is possible.

[TheUlteriorMotive]

I think if you are bright as a kid or fast or good at sport you receive lots of positive feedback from teachers, coaches etc.

As you grow up, get older, get a job that yearning for praise from an authority figure (client, boss etc) stays with you and people chase it. FFS we do it a country - best fans, what did you think of us etc.

If you could switch off that “need to please” “need to be praised” and realise people don’t really think about you at all and you don’t need to get a pat on the head from them then you would be a lot more content.

[farmerinthecity]

[QUOTE=“TheUlteriorMotive, post: 942558, member: 2272”]I think if you are bright as a kid or fast or good at sport you receive lots of positive feedback from teachers, coaches etc.

As you grow up, get older, get a job that yearning for praise from an authority figure (client, boss etc) stays with you and people chase it. FFS we do it a country - best fans, what did you think of us etc.

If you could switch off that “need to please” “need to be praised” and realise people don’t really think about you at all and you don’t need to get a pat on the head from them then you would be a lot more content.[/QUOTE]

You certainly don’t have a need to be praised given your posts on the Jean McConville thread.

[Bisto]

[QUOTE=“TheUlteriorMotive, post: 942558, member: 2272”]I think if you are bright as a kid or fast or good at sport you receive lots of positive feedback from teachers, coaches etc.

As you grow up, get older, get a job that yearning for praise from an authority figure (client, boss etc) stays with you and people chase it. FFS we do it a country - best fans, what did you think of us etc.

If you could switch off that “need to please” “need to be praised” and realise people don’t really think about you at all and you don’t need to get a pat on the head from them then you would be a lot more content.[/QUOTE]

that’s very true…as a nation we do have an awful yearning to be liked …

[Bandage]

@TheUlteriorMotive

Or as Whitney Houston put it “learning to love yourself that is the greatest love of all”

Or as the great Damien Dempsey put it:

“Love yourself today
Okay
Okay.”

[KinvarasPassion]

@Little_Lord_Fauntleroy

Are you still using these techniques to propel yourself forward? Your recent triathlon achievement smells of NLP.

Tell me more mate, I feel I may have lost my way.

[Little_Lord_Fauntleroy]

Sadly not. I need to get back into it asap

[KinvarasPassion]

I believe Dr Brian Lipton is the go to guy these days.

[Corksfinedtboy]

TMS?

[anon61878697]

You wont get a reply from @Mark_Renton mate … he meditated himself to Nirvana… he was a monk in Tibet the last we heard.

[Corksfinedtboy]

He’s dead right