I tried to phrase that in many different ways so as not to say âtodayâ for exactly that reason.
I would say that todayâs society is less homophobic than 50 years ago. I would also say that homophobic attitudes change from not understanding to understanding yet hating.
[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894142, member: 24â]I tried to phrase that in many different ways so as not to say âtodayâ for exactly that reason.
I would say that todayâs society is less homophobic than 50 years ago. I would also say that homophobic attitudes change from not understanding to understanding yet hating.[/quote]
I knew that!
I would disagree on the hating word and use fearing instead.
[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894136, member: 24â]Tough on the father?
What about the poor lads having to grow up as homosexuals in the homophobic world of today? It is much tougher on them.[/quote]
Itâs just Julio covering his homophobia. Itâs a retarded comment, and as you say, itâs about the lads.
It was mentioned in a book I read. Think Julio Ceasar had been accussed of being the receiver in such an act early in his life and the allegations dogged him throughout his political career, before he was ultimately stabbed to death.
@caoimhaoin , DOG does speak very highly of his da in the book and said that he knew it affected him the most, I would know his da and he is as a sound a man you could meet, but shur thatâs how it is,
His mother and sister stopped going to games after Tipp in Semple stadium in 2009, for obvious reasons
I was merely commenting in passing that itâd be tough for any father to have two gay sons, I didnât say it wasnât tougher on the lads themselves, in fact the toughest part of the whole lot as a father is knowing how difficult it would be for your sons.
[quote=âmickee321, post: 894170, member: 367â]@caoimhaoin , DOG does speak very highly of his da in the book and said that he knew it affected him the most, I would know his da and he is as a sound a man you could meet, but shur thatâs how it is,
His mother and sister stopped going to games after Tipp in Semple stadium in 2009, for obvious reasons[/quote]
what was the quote from his ould lad?..
âjaysus Donal, whatever about your fucking short puck outs how the fuck am i supposed to back you up out there on the site each monday morning when they start going at me over this?â
He knew his ould fella would go to war for him tho, and thatâs all you want
The comment reminded me of a comment made by a relation of mine when we were discussing a girl from home who became pregnant at 18 and was unmarried.
âAw think of her poor mother. And she is so religious. This will devastate herâ.
Her husband interrupted with âNever mind the mother!! She will just have to wake up and realise that this is the modern world we live in. Think of the poor girl more so. It is her who will have to live with the consequences of it.â
[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894188, member: 24â]The comment reminded me of a comment made by a relation of mine when we were discussing a girl from home who became pregnant at 18 and was unmarried.
[B]âAw think of her poor mother. And she is so religious. This will devastate herâ.
Her husband interrupted with âNever mind the mother!! She will just have to wake up and realise that this is the modern world we live in. Think of the poor girl more so. It is her who will have to live with the consequences of it.â[/B]
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No one speaks like that FFS. You made up that whole story didnât you.