[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894668, member: 24â]If you were playing a sport with men and women and you were showering with a woman. Would you get sexual gratification and watch her when she showers?
Would the woman have a right to feel uncomfortable if she was a lesbian?[/quote]
I wouldnt get sexual gratification, nor would I watch her. although, it would highly depend on who it is, if it was Megan fox or someone obviously it would be hard not to, but that generally wouldnt be the case.
Yeah the woman would have a right to feel uncomfortable, but my point being why is it automatically assumed that a gay man gets sexual gratification and watches other men, regardless of their attractiveness or sexual orientation.
[quote=âGman, post: 894672, member: 112â]I wouldnt get sexual gratification, nor would I watch her. although, it would highly depend on who it is, if it was Megan fox or someone obviously it would be hard not to, but that generally wouldnt be the case.
Yeah the woman would have a right to feel uncomfortable, but my point being why is it automatically assumed that a gay man gets sexual gratification and watches other men, regardless of their attractiveness or sexual orientation.[/quote]
I donât know if that was what was being assumed, certainly not what I was assuming.
Whether someone get sexual gratification or not obviously depends on whether they are attracted to the person. I can only assume that gay men are like straight men in that they get gratification from certain people and not from others.
The point is that if the shoe was on the other foot as I described already, there would be uproar. In fact it would never happen.
[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894678, member: 24â]I donât know if that was what was being assumed, certainly not what I was assuming.
Whether someone get sexual gratification or not obviously depends on whether they are attracted to the person. I can only assume that gay men are like straight men in that they get gratification from certain people and not from others.
The point is that if the shoe was on the other foot as I described already, there would be uproar. In fact it would never happen.[/quote]
but is this another example of only looking at it from one point of view? do you think that the gay person might also be uncomfortable in a shower with other men? Put it on the other foot, if you were in a room with 25 women and were getting into a shower, would you feel uncomfortable?
personally, I couldnt give a shite if a team mate was gay, it wouldnt make any odds to me. and it wouldnt bother me if he was in the shower too, heâd still just be a team mate, not some sort of sexual deviant that was perving on me.
I could think of a lot of words to describe how I would feel and uncomfortable wouldnât be one of them.
[quote=âGman, post: 894681, member: 112â]but is this another example of only looking at it from one point of view? do you think that the gay person might also be uncomfortable in a shower with other men? Put it on the other foot, if you were in a room with 25 women and were getting into a shower, would you feel uncomfortable?
personally, I couldnt give a shite if a team mate was gay, it wouldnt make any odds to me. and it wouldnt bother me if he was in the shower too, heâd still just be a team mate, not some sort of sexual deviant that was perving on me.[/quote]
I wouldnât give a shit either. I never said he was a sexual deviant. I think you are choosing to get offended by this.
yeah and yet in your way of thinking his family should have manned the fuck and learned to accept itâŚ
jesus, youâre some clown of a man, its easy to see you come from a completely dysfunctional background[/quote]
[quote=âcaoimhaoin, post: 894578, member: 273â]You should try crawling back with 100k in the back pocket and a hot 24 year old Aussie bird, fella.
I have only one dog though, 3 leads alright(you may have been confused). One for billy, one for you and one for Fagan.[/quote]
which back pocket kev??..i think iâll blindside you in the airportâŚan olive skinned corkonian ,with washboard abs and a hottie hanging off his arm, strutting confidently through arrivals with a dog while simultaneously giving the pilot a lecture about how to land a plane shouldnât be too hard to spotâŚwatch your back palâŚiâm coming for youâŚ100k will be mine !!
[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894682, member: 24â]I could think of a lot of words to describe how I would feel and uncomfortable wouldnât be one of them.
I wouldnât give a shit either. I never said he was a sexual deviant. I think you are choosing to get offended by this.[/quote]
no, not getting offended, just surprised that others think its all sort of wrong. it wasnt your points that I was disagreeing with. to say that he would get sexual gratification form watching others in a shower? why is that assumed? and thats not directed at you, as you didnt say that.
[quote=âfarmerinthecity, post: 894668, member: 24â]If you were playing a sport with men and women and you were showering with a woman. Would you get sexual gratification and watch her when she showers?
Would the woman have a right to feel uncomfortable if she was a lesbian?[/quote]
Lesbians and straight girls shower together all the time. NO problem any of them
[quote=âSam Swarek, post: 894611, member: 2293â]? Just saying, it must be uncomfortable for their team mates like but I suppose if they say anything theyâd be accused of being homophobic.
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thatâs quite narcissistic âŚyou presume because he is gay he is constantly thinking of bending one of his teammates over the ice bath in the showers and leaving their ring piece flickering like a Cyclops in a rain storm ??.. or heâs trying to see the size of your pieceâŚi donât think it works like that to be honestâŚ
I dunno how anyone can presume to know how Gays think as the thoughts of a man sucking another mans cock is so disgusting to me I wouldnât put anything past them.
We all know one or two who are sound, still doesnât make what they practice acceptable imo.
[quote=âcaoimhaoin, post: 894578, member: 273â]You should try crawling back with 100k in the back pocket and a hot 24 year old Aussie bird, fella.
I have only one dog though, 3 leads alright(you may have been confused). One for billy, one for you and one for Fagan.[/quote]
What happened the hot 24 year old gym instructor that you followed out there in the first place?
Look if I was showering with women Iâd certainly be having a good look anyway whether I found them hot or average or not at all and I assume this would happen with gays too checking out men. If a straight man coaching a camogie team canât be in a dressing room while the team is getting changed then I think same should apply for gays, we are talking about equality and all that here right?