The Official TFK Father's Issues Thread. I don't know how they do it

[caoimhaoin]

I think i know people so controlling and bitter that were their wife to leave them or such a thing they may well go over the edge yes.

[Little_Lord_Fauntleroy]

i find that bizarre

[iron_mike]

@ironmoth

When the mind goes to the point of despair and suicide is the only option, who knows what someone is capable of? Remember the case of Sanjeev Chada who killed both his sons? When asked by gardaí why he killed his children, he said: “Because I love them so much.”

How do you legislate for something like that?

I don’t know what goes through these people’s minds. And in a way I’m glad because if I did I’d worry about myself. All I can tell, you that whatever shit we’ve gone through as a family we’ve dealt with it as a family. And have come to learn over the years that there is always someone who can help. Have I rowed with the wife? Of course I have but I’ve never had homicidal thoughts towards her or decided to harm the kids to get back at her.
At the end of the day who knows? There are a pleterra of reasons this could have happened but I cannot justify taking a whole family out for any of them.

[caoimhaoin]

Really? Someone did it within 5 miles of where i grew up. Why is it so banans?

Its relatively common in last 10 years.

[Little_Lord_Fauntleroy]

what it is , 1 occurrence per year?

[iron_mike]

@caoimhaoin

Really? Someone did it within 5 miles of where i grew up. Why is it so banans?

Its relatively common in last 10 years.

It’s been too common in the last ten years. A lot of people putting it down to " the crash" but it’s way deeper then that.

[TheUlteriorMotive]

Horrible thought but wonder who was killed first and did they know others were dead. That sort of shit would haunt me.

Cops who walked in on that won’t get over that.

[caoimhaoin]

No i think it has to be a perfect storm of a possessive psycho or otherwise mentally ill person thats partner finally breaks free or challenges them.
Or someone with mental illness of some sort who hits really hard times and feels they cannot support the family and convinces themselves that this is the best way.

[caoimhaoin]

Not sure. Seemed like 1 a month a few years ago.

[carryharry]

+1.

[iron_mike]

The “if I can’t have you then no one else can” syndrome?

[caoimhaoin]

Ya, reports from cops/family member etc often say it was suicide by car.

Sad stuff.

[caoimhaoin]

Ya i think that may be an explanation in some cases. They are the types i think of. The spoilt brats.

[Juhniallio]

@ironmoth

When the mind goes to the point of despair and suicide is the only option, who knows what someone is capable of? Remember the case of Sanjeev Chada who killed both his sons? When asked by gardaí why he killed his children, he said: “Because I love them so much.”

How do you legislate for something like that?

The thought that you couldn’t let your kids grow up in a world without you and the pain it would cause them were you to killyourself/split with the missus is fucked up but who knows how far away anyone is. A run of bad luck, some family tragedy, losing a job marital problems. Any combination of that shit could flip a fella who was previously normal. Fuck that shit lads. Hug your loved ones tonight.

[caoimhaoin]

Winner.

[Mac]

@caoimhaoin

I think i know people so controlling and bitter that were their wife to leave them or such a thing they may well go over the edge yes.

Case in Wexford a few years back down to the wife having an affair apparently. Husband flipped when found out and killed her, the kids, himself while burning house down. Nuts.

[myboyblue]

@TheUlteriorMotive

Horrible thought but wonder who was killed first and did they know others were dead. That sort of shit would haunt me.

Read somewhere that it was the wife first. Cant think about it too much to be honest. The poor people who walked in on that.

[iron_mike]

@Juhniallio

@ironmoth

When the mind goes to the point of despair and suicide is the only option, who knows what someone is capable of? Remember the case of Sanjeev Chada who killed both his sons? When asked by gardaí why he killed his children, he said: “Because I love them so much.”

How do you legislate for something like that?

The thought that you couldn’t let your kids grow up in a world without you and the pain it would cause them were you to killyourself/split with the missus is fucked up but who knows how far away anyone is. A run of bad luck, some family tragedy, losing a job marital problems. Any combination of that shit could flip a fella who was previously normal. Fuck that shit lads. Hug your loved ones tonight.

Made one promise with the wife when we got hitched. No matter how bad the row was, the heads always laid down on the same bed. Hasn’t let me down yet.

[iron_mike]

@iron_mike

@Juhniallio

@ironmoth

When the mind goes to the point of despair and suicide is the only option, who knows what someone is capable of? Remember the case of Sanjeev Chada who killed both his sons? When asked by gardaí why he killed his children, he said: “Because I love them so much.”

How do you legislate for something like that?

The thought that you couldn’t let your kids grow up in a world without you and the pain it would cause them were you to killyourself/split with the missus is fucked up but who knows how far away anyone is. A run of bad luck, some family tragedy, losing a job marital problems. Any combination of that shit could flip a fella who was previously normal. Fuck that shit lads. Hug your loved ones tonight.

Made one promise with the wife when we got hitched. No matter how bad the row was, the heads always laid down on the same bed. Hasn’t let me down yet.

Well except when I got fucked out for snoring😉

[ironmoth]

@iron_mike

Made one promise with the wife when we got hitched. No matter how bad the row was, the heads always laid down on the same bed. Hasn’t let me down yet.

It’s a simple but brilliant rule to life your life by.