Tom Humphries thread

That was over 2 years ago for you.

Why do you support shorter sentences for child abusers?

Ironic you talking about shorter sentences given that the average sentence you type here tends to be a monosyllabic grunt.

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But the real irony is you spouting about victims when you support shorter sentences for child abisers

The discussion revolved around whether or not Hook should be sacked for his comments after his apology. The most vocal in this argument were without doubt those like yourself seeking to have him sacked and “held accountable”. If you took issue with the witch hunt to have him sacked you got labelled a rape apologist. Thats exactly what you are doing right now. i don’t agree with his comments but the reaction far outweighed the offence in my opinion.

You are claiming there is a witch hunt against Donal og. but there was no witch hunt in Hooks case! Are people not allowed to be disgusted by his actions and allowed discuss them? I wouldn’t call that a witch hunt. If people were actively trying to organise and have him sacked from his job that would be different.

It’s possible to feel absolute disgust about rape, not blame the victim of a rape and have a conversation about personal responsibility also guys.

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Your honeymoon sounds like savage craic.

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It’s what Hook probably felt he was doing,
Walsh and Cusack are guilty of completely misguided ‘loyalty’, nobody really knows 100% how they’d react if it was somebody that they had a long standing personal relationship with, it’s easy to say that they’d be dead to you but I wonder?? none are criminals

I agree with most of this. There’s a fella I used to hang out with a bit who’s brother was done for something horrendous. He’s in portlaoise prison. Fucked up the family, parents moved away. Last time we met for a pint I talked to him about this. Disgusted and dismayed as he is with his brother, he can’t disown him entirely. He may be a sick cunt and he’s angry as hell with him but he’s still his brother.

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Have moved on to Tarifa kid…was sitting out on the roof there sipping on complimentary cava and looking at Africa across the Gibraltar straits while princess is in the shower.

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The discussion mainly revolved around people actually talking about whether Hook was right to make the victim blaming comments or not, and people trying to deflect away from the actual victim blaming.

The most vocal, certainly from the sheer volume of comments I’ve seen across different forums, have been those defending Hook. Now, either that sort of reactionary right online opinion is exponentially more vocal than those who thought rightly Hook’s comments were disgraceful, or Ireland has a serious problem in society in how it views rape. I end to the view that it’s the former, but who knows.

That was a pretty sad discussion to have, to have to discuss whether a woman is to blame for her own rape or not.

One would have thought that perhaps as a society, we had moved beyond that, but clearly not.

Even today, we’ve had posters deflecting away from what he said and trying to turn the discussion of what he said into a discussion about something else.

You are one of these posters.

I find myself arriving at a very obvious conclusion about why people would want to do that.

You’ve just claimed that Hook was the victim of a witch hunt but Cusack isn’t. Which is extremely ironic given what you type above.

Hook is paid to give opinions.

While working in his job, he gave opinions, not for the first time, which society has decided are unacceptable, and harmful to women and victims of rape and sexual abuse because they perpetuate into society a deeply misogynistic view that not only can a woman be to blame for her own rape, but that she should expect such to happen if she agrees to take part in a consensual sex.

Those opinions are also completely wrong in a basic factual sense.

It’s Hook’s responsibility in his job to not utter such extremely harmful and factually wrong opinions. He crossed a red line.

Cusack has uttered no such extremely harmful and factually wrong opinions in public. He perhaps misguidedly provided a character reference for somebody he knew but he has not uttered views that mitigate the seriousness of the crime Humphries committed.

And there is no justification for, say, Cusack losing his job over such.

So a character reference for a man who groomed his victim and sent pictures of his own genitalia is not harmful to the victim?

So Cusack was “misguided”. I don’t agree with that at all by the way but say he was. Is it possible Hook was “misguided” in his comments?

Yes, and I think character witnesses are an integral part of a fair and just judicial system. Whether the judge takes any heed of the character witnesses depends on a number of factors, the specifics of the case (premeditated or spontaneous), who the witnesses are and their motivation, etc. The best character witnesses are those who know the defendant best, which is generally family members. It’s a pretty damning indictment of anyone providing a character witness for Humphries, and essentially asking for a more lenient sentence, that the people who outed him and provided the evidence that convicted him were his own family (who also are victims).

What this question boils down to is whether Humphries should be sentenced to five years, which I believe is the standard in Ireland for an adult convicted of engaging in sex with a minor, or ten years where the adult uses a position of power to engage in sex with a minor. Given the evidence that has been made public, I don’t know how anyone could justifiably argue against the latter sentence.

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Cusack didn’t defend Humphries’ crime.

Hook not only stated that a woman can be to blame for her own rape, but sarcastically asked why she was even surprised at being raped.

As I said, if Cusack had just blamed Humphries’ victim for her own abuse, maybe he’d have had more people defending him, because that’s what happened when Hook did it.

I wonder if the two lads knew as much as we do now when they provided the references?
The facts that emerged were quite different to what was in the public domain.

There is no conversation to be had about the “personal responsibility” of a rape victim, because they do not ever bear any personal responsibility whatsoever for being raped.

I don’t know is the most honest answer I can give to that. Even so the knowledge was out there that this was a premeditated crime thus making Walsh and Donald Ogs character references even more hypocritical than Hooks outburst.

According to the reports from the sentencing hearing, Cusack said that Humphries’ GGA coaching in a voluntary capacity should be considered a mitigating factor. That’s obscene stuff.

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Actual link with the wording of such please.

It’s like saying voluntarily becoming a priest should be a mitigating factor for a child molesting priest.

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