now they have the day after invites, so if ya didn’t get invited to ‘the afters’ you’re really down the pecking order
A fucking massive insult to get an invite to afters .
I felt like an intruder the few times I went to “afters”
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He’s only a young fella, it’s a long long time since I went to an afters but I did a few in my 20s
They won’t be expecting any cash from you @anon32894817 but a card with a 50 in it would be considered generous
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Let’s say a wedding meal is €75 a head and the average peasant couple gives €200. That’s €50 left from the couple to pay for the rest of the wedding costs. If you arrive to the afters with €50 in a card you’re twice as generous as said couple. So stop being an arsehole and put €200 in the card.
For a couple he doesn’t know, and cost them nothing, are you fucking well?
Put your book down and read his post again.
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No, I’m going to dig in now.
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Ungrateful bastard. My LMD spent ages choosing that.
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How’s he supposed to afford presents for his mates when he feels obliged to hand out hundreds to complete strangers?
Five all cash tickets in the card should do the job @anon32894817. Are you going halves with the lady on the gift or is she giving them something as well?
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That’s as Tipp as it gets right there.
Fire in 50 quid into a card kid. All bases covered
€200 is perfectly acceptable for a couple who are going to maybe 6-10 weddings a year, paying accommodation at all of them, drinking a skinful, diesel costs and maybe a day off work, the woman might get hair done professionally for each of them and maybe a few new dresses and shoes bought. You’re off your head thinking that’s peasant behaviour if it’s not family member or a best friend getting married. I don’t think it’s the guests job at a wedding to be covering the cost of bands, ice cream vans, photographer and all that stuff. Cover the cost of your meal and a bit over and I think that’s very fair.
@anon32894817 don’t go to the afters, put that in the bin. Whole shebang or nothing.
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Get yourself cleaned up put on a nice shirt and a nice pair of shoes and go to the afters and give that young lady a good seeing to afterwards.
Dont give the happy couple a red cent.They sound like a right pair of cunts.
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Get them a toaster
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If i was "invited "to an afters they wouldn’t even be getting a card.FFS some lads have no wit.
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some seriously tight cunts on here
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