Wedding Etiquette

Donegal town? Did that trip 3 or 4 times but its been years. Went through Cavan and Eniskillen (or close by eniskillen) and on to donegal from there

Might be quicker way if roads changed since

Yeah Donegal town.

What part of Donegal?

Edit: Ignore

Mate of mine skipped the mass. The first time I saw him and his wife was in Langtons and it dawned on me that they decided to give the Jesus bit a skip.

They have a young family, she was pregnant at the time and I’m not any way religious so it didn’t bother me in the slightest.

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Have you small kids? If so it’s acceptable and common place to miss the mass.

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The silence from @croppy_boy is deafening.

Just say “sorry we didn’t make it to the mass” when you meet them at the reception. If they’re anyway sound they won’t give a fuck

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Usually €200 or €250 Cash.

If Donegal town head through Cavan.

Ballybofey or anywhere east of that go through Omagh.

If you’re going to miss the Mass let them know. It’s the decent thing to do.

Only outta the leaba. Apologies.

Making the most of your last few sleep in’s, right too. You won’t get one of them for a few years soon!

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Hah. Thought we might have an early visitor yesterday but nothing for another week or so.

Long fucking day.

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Depends. Two wives of friends have serious grudges about people missing their respective masses, “don’t think it wasn’t noticed” and “if you don’t come to the mass you don’t come to the weddibg” were two comments from them. Pair of fucking eejits. Don’t get caught.

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Lots of people consider the ‘wedding’ to be the bit that happens in the church, weird eh?

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A friend’s wife warned us before their wedding "No Church, no dinner "

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Fuck off? :smiley::smiley:

Basic good manners I would have thought.

Ah yeah, but I don’t think anyone misses the Chapel on purpose if at all possible.
I’d be more offended by a mean present ( Cash in Card )

Miss the mass ?

Are you lads serious ?

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My brother and my groomsman got so toasted the night before they missed mine.

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