Affairs

[croppy_boy]

@Bisto

You clearly need to spend more time here …

Offfftttttt.

[TheUlteriorMotive]

It’s all about opportunity and motivation innit.

[habanerocat]

@Batigol

Maybe I’m getting old but it’s right lousy on his part. His missus is dead on and a serious looking bird in her own right

Double standards…
Did you post on here once that when you’re 70 that you’d dump your missus for a younger model…If you could afford it?

[Locke]

The INTERNET never forgets.

@habanerocat

@Batigol

Maybe I’m getting old but it’s right lousy on his part. His missus is dead on and a serious looking bird in her own right

Double standards…
Did you post on here once that when you’re 70 that you’d dump your missus for a younger model…If you could afford it?

[Arthur]

Mike Skinner had a good one on this ‘the reason you’ve been faithful is, you’ve never seen temptation’. All very well for us ugly cunts to moralise.

All Goes Out the Window - The Streets (Lyrics)

[TheUlteriorMotive]

I’ve seen a couple (two) of recent affairs where the woman was single and man married. Woman in her thirties and gets pregnant. Both split up but there’s a child.

Hill Street Blues - 'Let's be careful out there'

[balbec]

How’s that mate of yours getting on since?

[Gman]

I worked with a guy a good few years back who moved to the South East with his family to avoid issues back in Dublin. His wife was pregnant and he got his secretary pregnant then too. So had 2 kids in the space of a month of each other. So as far as i was aware, the wife wanted to move away and start fresh and give him a second chance. Having seen him out on work sessions, moving from Dublin wasnt solving the problem.

[TheUlteriorMotive]

I was mates with the girl via my wife. A fucking disaster is how it ended up for them all. A harsh lesson.

He got caught. Left the wife.

They (himself and the girl) broke up, got back together, had a baby, were to buy a house and then broke up permanently.

He was happily married I think with kids in late teens. He’s now starting from scratch with a baby from it all.

I can see a lad getting carried away and having a one or two night stand but full blown affairs and blowing up your family - you’d want to stop and consider how miserable you are.

One thing I saw with the two affairs is women want to win in any battle involving a man. They want to be chosen. Once they are chosen the halo wears off fairly quickly.

[TheUlteriorMotive]

Personal Issues / Agony Aunt Thread

I was down in Brittas Bay a few years ago. Myself and two friends went to Jack Whites for a pint or two. We got chatting to a man in his sixties in a suit and tie. My pal guessed his accent as Roscommon and away we went chatting. He said he was living in Dublin when he was twenty and met a girl and fell in love and they got engaged. However he wanted to move to the UK and she would not so they broke up. He moved to Birmingham, met a woman and had 3 kids. Years passed. One day he …

[Arthur]

Belter of a story

[TheUlteriorMotive]

Told to us over about an hour. We were a few pints in. We headed back to the wives to tell them about the lad we met and the great romantic story he had told us.

they didn’t see it the same way

[Bisto]

Whatever about two adults carrying on an extra marital affair in private, there’s something utterly pathetic about a lad in his 40s boasting about riding women behinds his wife’s back …

[TheUlteriorMotive]

I’m not sure he was boasting. He was late 60s. We started conversation and it went from there. He considered the lady who died the love of his life and left his own wife.

There’s a certain type of man who does it though.

Most men when they meet their soul mate are strong enough to say “sorry I’m already married”

[Bisto]

I wasn’t referencing your story … I just find when chatting to lads and they’re telling you about some married man being an awful man for women… listen we all messed about when we were young , just think if you do enough of it at the right age you’ll have had your fill of it …

[TheUlteriorMotive]

The lads boasting about it tend not to be the lads actually doing it though.

For some lads relationships are like a monkey treats branches in a tree. They won’t let go of one til they catch the next one.

[Thomas_Brady]

I heard a member of the Cork hurling panel is having an affair . Outrageous

[myboyblue]

Cue the wagons in

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[TreatyStones]

Would it be linked to the new coach they got? Ive heard they got a new fella in who has caused serious friction.

[Thomas_Brady]

You could be on to something. I’ll ask my source.