A huge difference between us and the generation currently in nursing homes is if we’re still mentally sound well have the phones.,books, box sets and broad sporting interests to keep us occupied. Most older lads of that generation would watch fuck all TV, read very little etc. They didn’t waste all their free time like we do but it’ll stand to us in the end.
There are nice nursing homes. They need to become more like proper retirement villages though with more independent living options and also improved on site care. The elderly should not have to be brought into A&Es to be hooked up to drips for normal sickness.
Nursing homes moved from being retirement homes to end of life care homes progressively over the past two decades. An ongoing decline in the average stay (I know, I know about averages but bear with me) is accepted as falling significantly in that period. There are arguments about the number that would be worthy of TFK but take it as being from three-five years to now being less than 18 months. This reflects the entry point - it was once from the OAPs own home but has transitioned to being stepdown from a hospital bed. The typical entrant is now ill whereas previously they were more likely to be in need of daily care. This reflects an improved standard of personal care in later life at home and awareness of the implications of the fair deal scheme for assets.
Anyone else here who has worked / is working in the sector?
The Transitional Care Ward in Vincents (recently closed) was a very depressing place. You would have individuals there for prolonged periods of time waiting for their family to pick a place, get the Fair Deal in order and then wait for a RIP so they could move in.
All of these things reduce the quality of life for these people. I’ve seen myself the decline in some people’s spirit while there.
This is what would concern me about the longer term impact of shutting families out from nursing homes. I know it is necessary for a period and it is not an easy decision to make, but there will be some very lonely older people in those places right now.