Exactly, you have to test the water here . Get some other Gimp in the office to come up with the idea of a night out for what ever reason and see how it pans out. Indeed act with caution, but don’t you be the pussy here.
Jaysis, you brought me back down to earth with a mighty thud there, t_e.
I’ve had an office romance and break-up already and I know how ghastly it is but I was hoping this one might be purely up for a bit of no-strings excitement. Hopping on me in Flannerys after never speaking to me before and only seeing me around the office was a good sign, I thought. She’s in her mid-30s, I’d say. And we all know what they’re like.
unless she is married or about to be married run a fcuking mile from this. ladies of this age mean business and unless you are going to get serious have one spin on the merry go round and then shin down the drain pipe and away
Don’t mind these apes Thrawneen, go for the pulling and dragging whilst it’s on the table…
is he to haul her in to the stationary cupboard or something. to make this work he would either have to ask her out or land her in front of half the work colleagues. fine if an opprtunity presents it self but active campaigning means interested in her which is dangerous ground
There’ll be another work do soon enough. If I could get her number I could restrict the whole thing to drunken weekend texts and it’d all be fine and dandy, I bet.
what he said.
30 somethings are not for the faint of heart.
the nesting urge is, quite simply, overpowering.
she sounds gamey. one trip down the tunnel of love, and be off with you.
no purpose to drunken texts. mutual attraction has already been confirmed.
the last thing you want is her thinking it’s ok to communicate when drunk, it’s the perfect cover to start a discussion on how to “take the relationship to the next level”, or some such shite.
your mission here is to shag her without displaying any hint of the possibility of a relationship.
get in, out (repeat as necessary) and depart without promising anything. avoid forming anything that you’ll subsequently have to break up.
I was sitting up at the bar in Tommy O’Gara’s in Stoneybatter at lunchtime yesterday when this attractive middle aged lady sat down beside me. We got talking for the guts of half an hour. Then she asks me my name. Fagan, says I, Fagan O Dowd. Tell me Fagan, says she, is there a Mrs O Dowd. There’s fucking thousands of them, says I, you should look in the phone book if you’re really interested.
And with that she left.
[quote=“Fagan ODowd, post: 357176”]I was sitting up at the bar in Tommy O’Gara’s in Stoneybatter at lunchtime yesterday when this attractive middle aged lady sat down beside me. We got talking for the guts of half an hour. Then she asks me my name. Fagan, says I, Fagan O Dowd. Tell me Fagan, says she, is there a Mrs O Dowd. There’s fucking thousands of them, says I, you should look in the phone book if you’re really interested.
And with that she left.[/quote]
Thinly veiled, “I was approached by a hooker and seriously considered doing her but bottled it in the end” post by Fagan ODowd here.
Thinly veiled hookers are the only women who’d approach me in a bar post there from Bandage?[quote=“Bandage, post: 357177”]
Thinly veiled, “I was approached by a hooker and seriously considered doing her but bottled it in the end” post by Fagan ODowd here.
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That’s a bizarre story.
I was approached by a bird selling raffle tickets once also.
I was approached by a bird in the street looking to donate to concern. She seemed keen but I decided against donating and she left.
Why didn’t you just say no you sad cunt…
Technically it would not have been the correct answer, the Dunph. [quote=“The Dunph, post: 357182”]
Why didn’t you just say no you sad cunt…
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Why didn’t you tell her your price?
For some reason the area I live has an abundance of Milfs, and I mean crackers. The supermarket would be full of them, I work with a few and I’ve seen a few of them out then on weekends(without the chaps) and never a fella in sight.
Anyway whats the consensus on going off with a woman with one? Are there major drawbacks, besides the obvious one? Obviously I wouldnt want to be funding or listening to the kids and I’d presume they can be a hindrance for a while. Again I suppose I’ll be calling on Thrawneen for info here as he is the resident lady expert.
Could you not pull an English one your own age? Tisn’t that difficult just don’t get too balloobas doubling up for a pound and it is fairly straightforward
I would say most of these are my own age. Every cracking woman I see out and about has a kid at foot. I think i’ll have to take my socialising out of the supermarket and into the nightclubs though to prove that fact.
Still though, I’d imagine it would be unwanted baggage, however goodlooking she is.