I couldn’t even dare look at another woman for the next six months. I have resigned myself to a life of loneliness and unhappiness.
Nonsense. Get back on the horse (so to speak).
After 2 dates? You’ll give up for 6 months? Jaysus. No wonder you come on here looking for advice.
Don’t let them in emotionally pal, play it smooth and let things develop.
My confidence is shot, it needs to be rebuilt again. I’m feeling like a washed-up boxer now being fed to the young contenders for them to destroy me. I don’t know if I’ve another fight in me.
Mate, that’s not how Marcus Aurelius carry himself.
You surely have a couple of emergency numbers in your phone that you could call for a ride? Swallow your pride and get this out of your system with a munter
[QUOTE=“Gman, post: 1064875, member: 112”]After 2 dates? You’ll give up for 6 months? Jaysus. No wonder you come on here looking for advice.
Don’t let them in emotionally pal, play it smooth and let things develop.[/QUOTE]
I’m not interested in playing games, I’m not interested in changing who I am, if they can’t love me for that then what’s the point. Love for me is pure and from the heart, I liked her, I felt she could be the one, clearly she doesn’t feel the same way. I guess I fall in love easily but that’s part of my makeup.
You’re a wonderful human being, bro and any girl would be lucky to have you. Keep the chin up and keep fighting the good fight. I get the feeling that 2015 will be the year of the bomber.
The tried and trusted way for centuries…
Sex is cheap and empty and with someone I don’t love it only makes me feel more lonely.
Go on tinder.
No.
You don’t understand, right now I don’t want anyone else. Don’t you get that this girl captured my heart, it may have only been two dates but she had everything I value in a woman - beauty, intelligence, kindness, she was engaging, she was captivating, she made me feel at much ease and the worst thing about it was that I had it mind that she felt the same about me. We had two terrific dates, we were glowing in each other’s company. We stayed out after until 3am on our last date, I walked her home, she told me what a wonderful time we had, we hugged then kissed and I as left to depart, she called back and said “so I’ll see you after Christmas?”. And two weeks later to this very day I get nothing from her.
I think that’s what hurts the most, she captured my heart and I led myself to believe I had done the same with hers. I felt the rest was a home run, I was on cloud 9 as I walked home that night.
Not saying to play games, just saying not to be going all out from the off. You don’t see totti bursting a gut in the first 5 minutes do you? No, he’ll take it easy, see what’s going on, and take it from there.
If I am suppressing my true emotions, then I am not being myself.
[QUOTE=“Il Bomber Destro, post: 1064897, member: 2533”]No.
You don’t understand, right now I don’t want anyone else. Don’t you get that this girl captured my heart, it may have only been two dates but she had everything I value in a woman - beauty, intelligence, kindness, she was engaging, she was captivating, she made me feel at much ease and the worst thing about it was that I had it mind that she felt the same about me. We had two terrific dates, we were glowing in each other’s company. We stayed out after until 3am on our last date, I walked her home, she told me what a wonderful time we had, we hugged then kissed and I as left to depart, she called back and said “so I’ll see you after Christmas?”. And two weeks later to this very day I get nothing from her.
I think that’s what hurts the most, she captured my heart and I led myself to believe I had done the same with hers. I felt the rest was a home run, I was on cloud 9 as I walked home that night.[/QUOTE]
So in person you were charming, attractive, and good company. You appear to have spoiled things by not doing what the board told you and came across as needy and annoying . Lesson learned the hard way.
Go on tinder. You don’t have to get rode by anyone if you don’t want to.
[QUOTE=“glasagusban, post: 1064916, member: 1533”]So in person you were charming, attractive, and good company. You appear to have spoiled things by not doing what the board told you and came across as needy and annoying . Lesson learned the hard way.
Go on tinder. You don’t have to get rode by anyone if you don’t want to.[/QUOTE]
Why can’t you understand, right now, I am not interested in anyone else. It’s like going into a shop to buy a Nutri Bullet, they tell you they are out of them and ask would you like a blender. I am not interested in a fucking blender, I only want a Nutri Bullet. I only want her, clearly you have never experienced love in its purest form.
I am not cribbing about why it went wrong, I accept what she may have deemed as failings on my part, but my personality is what it is and I can’t and won’t change that. I would rather live the rest of my life lonely and unhappy than pretending to be someone I am not because I could never sustain it.
You advice was awful in any case and you seem to be as utterly useless as me with this stuff so don’t come on lecturing me where I went wrong. It wasn’t meant to be, I’m crushed but now I must slowly recover.
Having recently met my soulmate I can empathise entirely with what @Il Bomber Destro is getting at here. Glas is an unmerciful spastic
Delighted for you mate, cherish every moment.
[QUOTE=“Il Bomber Destro, post: 1064922, member: 2533”]Why can’t you understand, right now, I am not interested in anyone else. It’s like going into a shop to buy a Nutri Bullet, they tell you they are out of them and ask would you like a blender. I am not interested in a fucking blender, I only want a Nutri Bullet. I only want her, clearly you have never experienced love in it’s purest form.
I am not cribbing about why it went wrong, I accept what she may have deemed as failings on my part, but my personality is what it is and I can’t and won’t change that. I would rather live the rest of my life lonely and unhappy than pretending to be someone I am not because I could never sustain it.
You advice was awful in any case and you seem to be as utterly useless as me with this stuff so don’t come on lecturing me where I went wrong. It wasn’t meant to be, I’m crushed but now I must slowly recover.[/QUOTE]
I’m only suggesting you have a look around on it mate. It might help you gain perspective. It can’t hurt. And when it comes to it, there are a lot of girls out there who, like you, are looking for something meaningful and using tinder as a way to meet nice men like you.
Delighted for you pal. #butterflies