Again, this is where we differ. I am not looking for any girl, I’m looking for my soulmate. I think it will be extremely hard to meet another one like her and right now I am tired and weary. I am not getting any younger and I don’t feel like putting my emotions through the mill anytime soon.
Ideal qualities for a tfk mod.
As a matter of interest, how do you know whether or not she has opened your messages. If it gives you closure, then that can only be a good thing. Just grit your teeth, and drive on. I had worse and bounced back. You will too. Take these lines from “The Shipping News” to heart. They helped me through a very dark time. Watch the film for their full effect.
[last lines]
Quoyle: There’s still so many things I don’t know. If a piece of knotted string can unleash the wind, and if a drowned man can awaken, then I believe a broken man can heal.
[QUOTE=“flattythehurdler, post: 1064938, member: 1170”]As a matter of interest, how do you know whether or not she has opened your messages. If it gives you closure, then that can only be a good thing. Just grit your teeth, and drive on. I had worse and bounced back. You will too. Take these lines from “The Shipping News” to heart. They helped me through a very dark time. Watch the film for their full effect.
[last lines]
Quoyle: There’s still so many things I don’t know. If a piece of knotted string can unleash the wind, and if a drowned man can awaken, then I believe a broken man can heal.[/QUOTE]
They have been sent via viber and before I deleted them they had delivered under them rather than seen. You can generally read the messages through the notifications or pop-up without them being flagged as seen. She has seen their content but doesn’t want to let on she has. It’s done, guys. I won’t be hearing from her but she hasn’t stopped being on my mind and she won’t for the foreseeable future, she will join a list of lovers past who crop into mind every so often and conjure up some sorrow.
I know I must bounce back but with every blow it gets tougher, it wears you down. The worst thing that can happen is have your hopes built up and then torn down, I have been thoroughly miserable with friends and family this Christmas and escaped to solitude early as much for them as me.
Would she have died since your last date?
If she was brown bread her family wouldn’t have the heart to open her messages yet. Especially if she came a cropper to something nasty over the xmas period.
Allow then more time maybe.
Not much anyone can say bomber, but delete her number and avoid, avoid, avoid. There is likely only further heartache if you don’t. Shoulders back, take the pain and move on. it’ll be the championship again soon. Keep her lit.
Yes, I have done so.
I gave it everything, for that reason I don’t feel remorse or regret - just sadness.
Atychiphobia
What would McGeeney say to do?
You were given sound advice and you ignored it. You’ve no one to blame but yourself. Sorry for kicking you when you’re down Bomber but next time listen to advice when you ask for it
[QUOTE=“HBV*, post: 1064946, member: 234”]Would she have died since your last date?
If she was brown bread her family wouldn’t have the heart to open her messages yet. Especially if she came a cropper to something nasty over the xmas period.
Allow then more time maybe.[/QUOTE]
Little point in allowing more time if she’s cream crackered.
[QUOTE=“TheUlteriorMotive, post: 1064959, member: 2272”]Atychiphobia
What would McGeeney say to do?[/QUOTE]
How much would a session with a psychotherapist set you back? I’ve always been intrigued by the idea of getting my mind probed.
The least he should do is send a mass card
I blame nobody, it wasn’t meant to be. I am just sad that it didn’t happen for whatever reason.
You went down under your own steam, if indeed you did go down. Go with your gut. Any man who would take advice from the likes of glasagusban is a weak imbecile of a man and you are anything but imo. To thine own self be true.
What would you like to achieve
I don’t know, I’d like to think that these sessions could maybe help identify that. Right now I feel a mess and I’m going to live a lonely and unhappy life.
I know there’s something in the wake of your smile.
I get a notion from the look in your eyes, yea.
You’ve built a love but that love falls apart.
Your little piece of heaven turns too dark.
Listen to your heart
when he’s calling for you.
Listen to your heart
there’s nothing else you can do.
I don’t know where you’re going
and I don’t know why,
but listen to your heart
before you tell him goodbye.
I probably should have sent this to her in my final message.
[QUOTE=“flattythehurdler, post: 1064938, member: 1170”]
Quoyle: There’s still so many things I don’t know. If a piece of knotted string can unleash the wind, and if a drowned man can awaken, then I believe a broken man can heal.[/QUOTE]
Fuck off with that shit.