Your post suggests you understand peterson, robbins and closet homosexuals?
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Yip.
And get help for something you canāt.
He believes we can fix most things ourselves if we just slow down and think about it.
Calm your tits. Maybe Peterson has a video that can help you with being so fucking precious all the time. I donāt need to copy and paste. Now, you replied to me, so fuck off and stop annoying me.
Do make the bed every morning?
Most people donāt have a bed that doubles as a couch/table
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I started the self authoring last night. It is powerful stuff. It is not comfortable.
I would say a lot of lads on here who had to stare into the abyss of themselves would not come back from that journey.
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Jordan is forcing lads like to glas to reevaluate his life, he canāt handle it
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Without revealing too much obviously , have you had more standard forms of therapy?
Itās pretty much the same for me so far as previous experiences.
Only started though.
More right than wrong imho Glas.
Iām basing this entirely on soundbites Iāve read here and that interview with the dimwit on channel 4
I have no doubt. But that doesnāt mean he shouldnāt be taken with a grain of salt and that everyone shouldnāt question what he says for themself, like absolutely everyone and anything else.
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I entirely agree. Someone needs to challenge what seems to be becoming some of the Liberal orthodoxy though, and he does a good job of that , though treating his every utterance like a form of scripture is equally a malaise.
Where we have a woman who was privileged to be in a position to look after a baby rescued by her partner looking for money as a balm for witnessing a scene, something has gone deeply wrong in society though.
The natural extension of this is to open the makers of distressing documentaries or horror films for causing āptsdā (nightmares).
I have done a fair few development coaching and sessions with a psychologist - aimed at work stuff in terms of goals more than personal. All connected though
Similar gist to this - the answers are all inside you and the trick is to question you in such a way that you come up with the answers yourself and based on that start to implement solutions. The skill is in the questioning but it only works if you do the work too.
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Like anything really.
We all need to work on ourselves.
Unfortunately society is set up that you work hard for leaving cert, then go to college, then get a job.
Then thatās the end of it. I think itās why so many of the āprofessionalsā stagnate at 30-35 . Some lads I know are just as immature at 35 at 25. The only thing that seems to change them is the forced event if a birth of a child or death of a parent.
Itās becoming more and more important as the world changes
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Agreed , Donāt feel guilty if you donāt know what you want to do with your lifeā¦
the most interesting people I know didnāt know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives
some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still donāt
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Maybe youāll get married, maybe you wonāt.
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Hardly staring into the abyss now is it?
Well these lads definitely shouldnāt get married.
Maybe itās pure luck or maybe itās somewhat planning, but I am so happy I did not get married younger.
Some lads are ready and have their shit together. But I would suggest together they are the exception rather than the rule under 35ish
Depends on the person of course.
I have listened to people absolutely genuinely is distress about something. Full of anxiety.
Yet in my head I would have thought āget a grip, this is not heavy shitā.
However I was wrong. Heavy shit comes in different forms for different people.
Realising that I suppose is another level of empathy
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Iām beginning the self authoring this weekend. If you are any way serious about your life you need to constantly go outside your comfort zoneā¦ You can see thatās the problem with most lads here, they just want to stay in the comfort zone, sipping a few pints on weekends and lashing out on the internet midweek.
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Genuine question Flatty, what is this liberal orthodoxy and where do you see it?