I genuinely feel your pain. We were pretty much on our own as well. Her parents were busy with her sister who had one about the same time and had pretty bad pnd. Suited us tbh. We used stick him in a car seat and go out with him under the table an odd time, but mostly were too tired anyway.
That’s a hard station though mate. It does get easier and easier.
Does rest do anything for joggers knee or do you have to build up the muscles? I’d swear It only came on when I changed my old brooks for a new pair of Asics