I have zero interest in getting involved in these trans/woke/whatever debates. They bear the same relationship to tedium as Mayo do to All Ireland Finals. Paul Murphy and his partner are obviously entitled, within extremely broad parameters, to parent in whatever way they deem fit. This right is paramount – especially to ‘traditionalists’, no? Same time, I think that Irish Times article was crass. Then again, I have long thought PM all but a moron.
But your comment on use of ‘it’ in a tig game is where you sometimes go wrong. You homogenize. Here, you are eliding use of ‘it’ as a pronoun (instead of ‘he’ or ‘she’) with use of ‘it’ as a noun (synonym for ‘person elected’). There is a significant tonal difference in the two usages – and therefore a significant semantic difference. You are making an equivalence where no equivalence exists. The mistake spins off the word ‘it’ taking the same form across various usages, such as being the subject or the object of a verb. ‘It’ can also be an attributive adjective (‘the it girl of her day’) and a predicative adjective (‘Brad Pitt is it in Thelma and Louise’). The whole analytical point, nearly always, is surely to make distinctions, not to collapse distinctions.
I greatly enjoyed the Van Morrison/Them joke. Therein lies your writing ability. If you were writing an article on this topic, you should start with that joke. Would unsettle an audience expecting earnestness. And raise a chuckle about Mr Ivan’s anti vaccine maunderings.
I’m surprised I have to note this but the “you’re it” thing was a self-consciously absurd and I would have thought fairly obvious joke, rather than a serious point.
No. I think you have a strong tendency at times to homogenize and make everything equivalent to everything else. Your point about tig was that PM should be allowed to use ‘it’ because ‘it’ is routinely used in a children’s game. I think that claim, analytically, is a category error founded on a misunderstanding of homonyms’ role.
PM can use ‘it’ because he is the infant’s parent and has a Constitutional right on that basis.