What did the Ukrainians make of it all?
Christ I mugged myself off, threw âŹ50 into 3 separate envelopesđ¤Śââď¸
âŹ20 is stingy enough, even if itâs a non-family member. The young lad/lass will be acutely aware of the energy crisis and Russiaâs war on Ukraine and how itâs caused inflation to soar. Theyâd be cursing you behind your back, sayingâŚwhat the fuck can you get with twenty quid these days? You were spot on with âŹ50, donât mind @gilgamboa. At the same time, I wouldnât go overboard with family. You canât be just throwing ridiculous amounts at young kids. So Iâd say âŹ100 for a niece/nephew/grandchild.
A lot of the cooler parents these days are buying TFK platinum membership for children as a communion gift.
Pity for you that thereâs not on person on here that could be accused of being cool.
My younger lad wore sunglasses on the way home from Top Gun Maverick yesterday.
It was 11pm.
Was it any good?
Bloody brilliant.
Sounds like he has notions like his father
I thought the exact same thing
19 year old being waited on hand and foot here and treats his mother who does thiis like shit.
Sheâs gone off to bed depressed tonight and really upset at how he speaks to her.
He used to be very affectionate towards his mother but now thinks she just annoys him. She does everything under the sun for him.
Iâm so fucking pissed off at him.
He plays football for us tomorrow, weâll drive him there and back, his mother will còok him breakfast and then lunch and shâll get no thanks for it.
Weâve raised a right little (6foot 2) shit who doesnât know heâs born
Time for him to move out bro.
Sounds like the auld lad didnât give him a few clips when he wanted them.
Iâd say thatâs probably fairly standard tbh. He will get over it
Take him out for dinner and a chat. Tell him straight up how you feel about how he treats his Mum. Tell him how it makes her feel. Ask him is everything ok with him? Ask him how does he think his Mum feels when he carries on like that? You are just trying to build some empathy. Ask him what needs to happen now?
Stay calm at all time
Once he gets drunk then you blind side him and bate him senseless
Thereâs nothing wrong with him, heâs just an entitled prick only child whoâs been aÄşlowed to become a prick.
And thatâs probably our fault, but I just cannot fathom how someone who genuinely has a great life is so fucking selfish.
Yes itâs probably our fault, but I am really fucking angry at how hrle treats his mother. She doesnât deserve that.
Have you seen how big he is? Heâd kick seven shades out of me.
I wonât give advice* but what Fenway said is sensible. There could be something at the root of his angst and/or he mightnât realise the damage of his behaviour.
*If I was, it would be along the lines of donât feed the big fucker anymore until he cops on.