Are you Alfonso?
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You must try. Youâd be mad not to. Just know when to fold em.
Funnily enough Iâm not. Iâd a similar experienceâŚturned up and spent an hour explaining the situation, answering questions etc. When I finish the counsellor said âaye, thatâs what I thoughtâ. He went on to say that most wimmin turn up and have a list of problems to recountâŚhusband is gambling, hes useless orviolent, an alcoholic, unfaithful etc. He said he listened to my missus for an hour and all he could hear was resentment, bitterness and rage but no specific incidents or reason for any of it. He had her worked out to the last. He asked if her father was an alcoholicâŚa common trait for kids of alcoholics is to cover their shame, blame themselves, control the situation etc by being absolutely perfectâŚschool, career, behaviour, outrageously handsome husband etcâŚno real childhood or personal development, just striving to cope, escape and compensate. Which is all grand until the adult arrives at the destination, then everything falls apart in a flashâŚthen all the trauma, resentment and anger is poured out in a safe secure environmentâŚa bonafide maelstrom of fury, manipulation and abuse
That was second wife. The first one was worse.
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on your way you creep. Donât let the door hit you on the way out
Your a very strange individual
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Ah! Lovely insertion. Youâre hard bate at this game.
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Gambling truly is a mugs game. Causes shocking problems in Irish homes.
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I had my doubts yesterday about this thread to be fair.
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Same here.
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Is Ed Case still on the go?
Whatâs a Wollie?
Like a cardigan
Oh so itâs a forum memberâs wife?
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Iâd say a relatively high percentage of gamblers have a problemâŚwhile a relatively low percentage of drinkers are alcoholics.
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Aye,they lose
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Thatâs the bit that puts me off
No. I wish.
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Youâre