Whats the deal @Thrawneen? Are you both making submissions to the court? When do they decide stuff?
@PoisonousMisanthrope
Mate of mine been going through this for years . He curbed all excesses as any indiscretion could be used in court . He got a very lucky break when he found out at a very early stage that she had hired a PI to track him
If you are completely serious about sorting this out Iād be steering well clear of the scooby snacks anyways and keeping head down in work and keep earning
Keep plugging away kid
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I would never jeopardise my place in my sonās life. Do I not sound like a guy who is completely serious?
This is a matter of life or death. If my son was whisked off to Poland and I had no rights I may as well be dead. Because the boy is my world, my life.
His mother has nothing. Just lies and some fucked up notion that her boyfriendās happiness needs to be accommodated. Now one look at the Court order form and she would quickly see that the court doesnāt give a fuck if I am happy, sheās happy let alone some fucking dickhead I donāt even know who has as much to do with my son as the lollipop lady on Station Road is happy. It is all about our childās happiness. I have been trying to get that into their thick selfish fucking skulls for two months. Heās got a load of friends. He wants to be a hurler. He is mad about his grandad and heās fond of his old man. Who has been dedicated to him since the first phone call and will remain absolutely dedicated to him until the last breath leaves this battered but resilient head of mine.
She knows sheās beaten I will get my basic rights, forgive her and try to get things back to normal for the good of my son because to cause him even a moment of upset because that arsehole ādoesnāt like Irelandā is utterly inexcusable. She has behaved shamefully and dishonestly. I wonāt let that be what my lad sees as being a correct way to go about things
No fucking way. Not a chance
Never.
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Cheers pal. Be strong kid. 
Patience & a steady hand will see you home here.
My only other bit of advice. Never, ever, ever say anything bad about his mother to him, or in front of him, and never row in front of him. No matter what she says about you, and heāll likely report some awful things back to you. Youāll be really glad of this in later life. Kids are too young to be pawns or politicians.
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You forgot to add āand donāt buy imaginary cars on the internetā.
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Best of luck with it all. Crappt situation but you come across as a resolute sort of a lad who will do what is right and get there in the end.
As maya angelou said āyou may encounter defeats but you will not be defeated. In fact it may be necessary to encounter the defeats so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.ā
Yep, absolutely. In a way this is the best thing to ever happen to me. Despite it being the worst. I am like a new man since I went to court and filed an order. I always live by putting the child first. I am absolutely disgusted with his mother but I have always left the house with a smile and a good feeling between us for the ladās sake. Minimum disruption is the goal. Thatās why I absolutely despise with all my heart this Polish cunt. He has caused upset for my child. He is and was very happy and my job is to keep that going. And then fly to Poland, hunt down yer man like a bloodthirsty animal andā¦ Iāve said too muchā¦
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Could you leave a swanās head in the cuntās bed? Would he get the message?
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Go shit in your ethically sourced hat.
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I donāt really have a head for hats. Although Iāve been considering getting a flat cap to improve my hipster credentials.
I bought a baker boy cap a few weeks back
Missus laughed me out of the place but fuck her iāll wear it now to spite her when we go anywhere with her friends or family
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flat caps ffs, welcome to 2014
You must be a very confident guy.
Or a traveller
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That would be the Galway blood.
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Says heā¦
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