My take on it was that it was a general point about ladies not putting themselves in harms way, but I had, in truth, forgotten that the poor lass was allegedly set upon by a second man, which does indeed make his comments less excusable.
I still donāt think it was outright blaming the poor girl, but maybe it was.
Iād state clearly here that I wouldnt have said such a thing, though Iād agree with hook in that Iād be deeply upset if my daughter went back to a hotel room drunk, with a complete stranger. Iād be exactly worried that she was putting herself in harms way, same as Iād be upset if she walked back from the dart station on her own at night. Should she be able to? Absolutely. Should she? Probably not.
I meant Cusackās articles, allegedly written by TH.
The content of Cusackās reference is problematic in that he lauded humphries for his GAA volunteering, which humphries used to gain access to the victim. It shows either a stunning lack of awareness of the case or a lack of empathy. Itās like a character for ted Bundy saying he was a great lad for giving women a lift.
If you want to give a character reference by all means do so, but at least be aware of the facts of the case which I donāt think Cusack has done and either stand over your words or donāt give it.
You are the one making a connection between Hook and the Cusack/TH case where there is none. You are assuming some ālogicalā follow on, logical in your head only. You are characterising it as victim blaming (again people disagree with that assertion), it is your assertion and then you are using it as a stick to beat posters who find Cusackās reference abhorrent. Defending Cusackās character reference with your mental gymnastics is bizarre here.
No, he wouldnāt have anyone defending him. You have created this fantasy defense in your head.
No, you donāt know this.
He knowingly gave a reference to a man guilty of sexually grooming an underage kid, whom the defendant was acquainted with through the gaa, the sport Cusack lives and breathes. (We know it was within the law to do so, we get it). Hook made comments regarding the safety of women and a rape case, where it was disputed if they were victim blaming. He and others didnāt think it was victim blaming, he made it quite clear the alleged rapist was a disgusting individual in his opinion, but he has since rowed back and apologised for the remarks.
You seem to be saying Cusackās actions and character ref are favourable compared to Hooks remarks?
Think youāll find Sid that point was made on here at the time and was very much shot down. Trying to equate a 14 year old who was groomed to victim blaming as being similar to hooks comments is not at all the same
Some scandal about an AFL player who posted some revenge porn on social media. Tadgh suggested the girl shouldnāt have got into a situation where the picture could be taken.
An All-Ireland final a few years back. Kerry v Cork. Ball was thrown in and he smacked a Cork lad straight in the head/face. Blatant red card. Got away without as much as a yellow card I think. (Was it Nicholas Murphy he hit, @gilgamboa@caoimhaoin ?)
Kerry went on to win and he fucked off back to Oz. Released an autobiography not long after where it said in the book something along the lines of āI wanted to make a statement from the start. I planned to hit him hard. Cop that.ā
Bit of a hullabaloo after when it came out, he claims his ghost writer had misinterpreted what he was saying and it was never his intention to hit him or hurt anyone.